I really like this woman that works with me. last week, she looked at me and said that i look marvelous. I really want to tell her that i think that she looks gorgeous, but i'm afraid that she may take it the wrong way and complain about me. i do not want to lose my job. any advice? thank you....
2006-12-28 11:10:58 · 6 answers · asked by luckystrike_x007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you really think that she would do that then I would just say that she looks nice today aswell. Just try to get on good terms with her ask if you can see eachother away from the office. Try to build a relationship even if it's just a friendly one first. Just be patient and see where things go.
2006-12-28 11:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Cyborg Farmer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, think about this.... is dating fellow employees common in your line of work or not? If so, relax but use caution. If it's not common, be very careful. Also, consider if you do end up dating and it doesn't work, will this be a problem at work? Probably so. I have dated girls at work before and none of them worked out. Always ended up being awkward and I even got written up once for it. NOW, IF YOU STILL WANT TO GO FOR IT, start with something casual. As her if she wants to go for coffee, or better yet, happy hour. Then you can feel her out more outside of work. Don't come on too strong the first time out, but give her all the signals. Good luck!
2006-12-28 19:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by A T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is already flirting with you but if your worried about whether she really likes you and howd she take a compliment why not keep it casual and freindly.
There would be nothing wrong with telling her she looks nice today. Smile alot and use good eye contact when she talks with you.
When you feel more confident then ask her out for coffee or see if a group of you from work could all meet after work for lunch and invite her along and see how she responds. Happy Holidays!
2006-12-28 19:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be careful as she may do that. Just be kind and do sweet things and see how it goes!!!
2006-12-28 19:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun, you should go for it.
i met my boyfriend at work and we are in love with eachother.
we're gunna spend the rest of our lives together.
hope the same works out for you
good luck!
2006-12-28 19:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't dip your pen in company ink.
2006-12-28 19:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by violamom74 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋