I really, really like him.
2006-12-28 11:05:18 · 17 answers · asked by chocolate~bunny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well , then you tell him and this should help...
Find a time that you can strike up a conversation with the guy. For instance, if he has the same class as you, or watches the same show, you could talk about that. Talk to him about something that you both like. Make a funny joke to get him to laugh.
Don't go way over the top by trying to flirt. You just may end up looking desperate and scare the guy. You don't have to wave a flag with his name on it to get him to notice you. At the same time, don't ignore him -- if he's flirting with you, return the favor. Things will move more quickly.
Try to look really cute around him--however, keep in mind that most guys like casual,natural girls that look like they didn't spend a lot of time on themselves. Wear clothes that are appropriate to the situation (avoid showing way too much skin).If you are overdressed you will look and feel uncomfortable. Wear natural makeup, a little lipgloss,mascara and blusher are often enough.
Flash your best million dollar smile for him.
Don't push him into liking you. Let him make his own decision. Chances are if he sees that you are comfortable with yourself, he'll feel at ease.
Be yourself - whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, or whatever. They will know if you are being fake. If the guy doesn't like you for who you truly are, then he probably isn't worth it.
Ask around about who his ex-girlfriends are. Take a look at them, or talk to them, and see if you notice something that they all have in common, for example, they all have straight hair which they wear down, or they all play sports. This could be why he liked them, if they all share the same thing its something small like hair, maybe you could do your hair like his exes, but don't change something drastically just for him.
Don't be afraid to show off a little in front of him, but don't show off too much, or you will seem conceited. Guys appreciate confidence.
Try to let him take the lead. Take this time to decide if you really like him and let them realize this is what you are doing. It will make them step up their game.
Don't be too hard on yourself. If he is not coming around, then let it go. Maybe he will find interest later. If not, it's not the end of the world.
If he looks like he might like you, ask him out. But be prepared to keep your cool if he says no. He'll probably respect you for it either way.
Don't play stupid mind games or send mixed signals.
Be nice and kind to the person. If they ask to borrow something, happily say yes. Also give compliments.
2006-12-28 11:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Boss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think you should do? Shouldn't you let that person know you like them? Why not tell them person to person? Why go about letting them know in some indirect way? If I like someone I let them know it and I try to do things for them when I get the chance. I also try to encourage them in every way I can and make their day a little brighter if possible. I try to make them feel that I love them and that I think the world of them also. I also try to include them in some things I do.
2006-12-28 19:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it, smile at him and ask him out. So he might say no and that'll hurt a little, chances are you'll get over it eventually. It sure beats waiting and maybe never knowing if he did like you and was too shy to do anything about it. At least you'll know and then you can move on
2006-12-28 19:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by oldsrocketbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a bit and see if he asks u out. If not, first make sure he's not with someone and ask him out urself (of course since u asked u have to pay for the date).
2006-12-28 19:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by Isabela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a conversation. Flirt. Make steady eye contact and smile. If he's into it he'll smile back. I he isn't or if he's shy, then you should try again when he seems happier.
But after that leave him alone, don't chase too hard. We guys don't respect it when you make it too easy.
2006-12-28 19:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Soundjata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. See if he feels the same about you. Maybe ask him out on a date or to lunch.
2006-12-28 19:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know before someone else takes them away.
2006-12-28 19:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you will fock him every night and do the washing up, if he licks u out.
2006-12-28 19:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, become closer friends with him. and what part of nj do u live in? if u live near nyc u could talk about that. e-mail me
2006-12-28 19:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show your interest on that person and make him feel that he is important.
2006-12-28 19:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by avenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋