How do u tell someone that you love them with out making them feel weird?

Answer 1

Hello!
Those 3 little words are the grandest words that one can hear.
Don't be surprised if they already know you care that much about them. As our love for someone shines through when we are with them. Pick an appropriate, quiet time to tell them. And merely say, I have something I want to tell you, and you don't have to respond, but I need to tell you that I love you. The person may respond in kind, or say nothing, or say they love you too.
Prepare yourself though, for whatever the response may be.
There are times in our life that our love isn't returned and that can be hurtful. But I wish you a good outcome!
I hope this helped.
Good Luck! :)

Answer 2

Depending on the person and your current relationship that might not be avoidable. If they have no idea and havn't thought of you in that way, they're proably going to be weird or uncomfortable no matter what you do.

the best thing to do is just to get it out there, if you're 100% sure that's how you feel, and ride resulting waves to the end. You're better off expressing your feelings than keeping them quitely to yourself, even if they arn't accepted in the way you hope or imagine.

If it can at all be helped, try to do it to their face, it cuts down on serious misunderstandings and you can inturput their reaction much more efficently. Notes or emails tend to be somewhat impersonal, and for something so important, i don't think a phone call would cut it.

Point being, be ready to accept any reaction with grace, and don't fear rejection...think of it more as a learning opportunity.

Answer 3

Why would telling someone you love them make them feel weird? I don't know of anyone who has been told this that thought it was weird. Where did you get such a notion? If you sincerely love someone don't you think that person would want to know how you feel about them? Wouldn't you want to know if some person loved you? How else are you going to know if they don't tell you?

Answer 4

Are you talking about a bff,bf, your mom dad or borther or sister?
Grandma? Grandpa? Funny Uncle? Crazy Aunt? Teacher? We need specifics here!!

The long and short of it is if anyone is going to feel weird because you said you loved them, that's a relationship you don't need to have. Just make sure the person you are telling you love is an appropriate candidate. (hint: Teacher is not)

Answer 5

There really is no way, i mean if u tell someone that u love them you should get affection back, but it will be a suprise anyway. They might like it if they like u, but make sure first. But to answer your question there is no way to tell someone that w/o making them feel weird. I say you should give the chance, but in any way it will b a suprise. GL!

Answer 6

Love should not give anyone a weird feeling, if they feel the same way.

Answer 7

Well first of all make sure when you tell her that its not in an award place or time..that would affect it. second don't just say I LOVE YOU..be more mellow like "hey listen, this may be a shock (or something like that) but I'm really into you" and don't press!

Answer 8

When the moment is right you will feel it..And as long as you mean it whole heartedly then it shouldn't be weird at all.

Answer 9

i think this kind of depends on the two people i once had a guy tell me that he liked me, but i never felt uncomfortable about it.......i guess u will just have to find out

Answer 10

songs r gay. tell them in a way like in a note you pass to her during dinner or something. that'll bring out the school girl in her. or whisper it in her ear.