Ive been in a relationship with my current bf for 3yrs, (lived with him 2 yrs) & at times I find myself thinking about my ex (my first love) who I havent heard of or spoken to since 00. I love my bf with all my heart & I feel bad whenever I think about my ex, which is not often, but when I do, i feel bad. Do y'all think Im a bad person, or why could it be that I think about him? We were on/off for 4 yrs, he got engaged & still wanted to see me (i found out through the newspaper, his engagement picture came out) but he never really told me. I've been told that when u remember/think of someone its cuz that person could be thinking 'bout u. . . i really dont know what to think. . . is that bad?
2006-12-28 10:59:00 · 8 answers · asked by Lil'MissSnshne 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trishy, to answer ur question, no I wouldnt leave my bf to be with my ex. i wouldnt give my ex another chance, that I can assure u
2006-12-28 11:10:14 · update #1
i was never intimate with me ex, I was still a virgin.
2006-12-28 11:11:38 · update #2
No thinking about your ex doenst make you a bad person, it makes you human. I'm married and i think about my ex's once in awhile. Usually about what it would have been like if we were still together and stuff like that, but I'm very happy being married to my husband. You just have to remember that you and your ex broke up for a reason and your probably better off because of it.
2006-12-28 11:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by oldsrocketbaby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your ex wanted to have his cake & eat it too...
meaning he didnt want to marry YOU, but he still wanted you
there for.............well, you know.
You are thinking about your ex because you are wondering
"what if". The "what if" was decided when he got engaged to another woman. You are giving his memory power over your current relationship & it will end up causing problems with your
current boyfriend. Also, I think that you dont love your current boyfriend with all your heart cuz if you did then your ex would
just be a fleeting memory.
He may be thinking of you, but the question is..........
if given the chance would you give up everything you have
now & go back to him? Would you give him the chance to be with you and leave you AGAIN for another woman??
Is he really worth it??
2006-12-28 11:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing to remember is that its easier to remember the good times with an ex then the bad. Its human nature to compare people.. and when you do that, you will always lose.
2006-12-28 11:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by FRESH_PEACH_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No mamas your not a bad person... I sometimes catch my self thinking about my ex... Ur only human... So dont feel bad about it... Just dont think about you ex around your man... Because your ex's name might just slip out... LoL... it happened to me... But thank god we weren't in bed...
2006-12-28 11:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not.I find myself thinking of exs from the past but its not bad.
2006-12-28 11:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by rfrandy2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of he will forgive youu. adult adult males are immature so it may desire to take the time. yet while it occurred 6 months in the past he could forgive you and if he would not you may pass on simply by fact if he's no longer prepared to forgive then he's no longer worth it. and he could desire to nevertheless have thoughts he in simple terms could desire to no longer understand what to do with them. i think of you may attempt and communicate over with him
2016-10-28 14:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's married, that is bad, but u dont hav 2 tell anyone about it! ; )
2006-12-28 11:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u aren't "bad", it's human nature
2006-12-28 11:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by the w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋