What should I do??

Question

I just asked out the girl that i've liked for a ver long time. She said no because she hasent gotten over her old boyfriend. But I really like this girl and I dont wanna let her go... so what should I do??

Answer 1

Wait awhile longer.
What's the rush?

Answer 2

Wait a while, then ask her again. My current bf asked me out right after I got dumped from the bf before him and I was still getting over it. And even though it took me a while to get over it, my bf now was always there beside me, as a friend and I knew I could talk to him about anything. Just be there for her now, gain her trust and when you think the time is right, ask again. Just don't give up. If you really like her, you'll keep asking.

Answer 3

If u really like her then wait, try to be her friend before u become her boyfriend, if u can support her through this difficult time she will know that really want to be with her and that u will do whatever it takes. She may not need as much time as u think, be patient

Good luck sweetie

Answer 4

Do you really want to be with someone when their heart is somewhere else. Why don't you give it some time...let her get over her old boyfriend before you ask her out again.....
Talk to her and let her know that your there for her when she is ready...for now you understand her feelings, and your going to give her the space she needs.....if you push her she'll end up resenting you...and surly won't want to be with you at all....so give her some time....she'll come around.

Take care.....

Answer 5

Theres nothing you can do you cant make someone wanna get with you they have to want to get with you. If she likes you she'll come to you. My advise try becoming freinds with her. Mebe if she spends time with you she'll see what a great person you are and surely want you back. Hope this helps Sincerely Meg. Note- Best of luck to you. If you want more advise click my avatar it'll give you the option of chatting with me. BYE!

Answer 6

Well, in these situations they are usually being polite. Perhaps the only other thing you can do is just hang out on a casual basis and see if things progress eventually. Sometimes, it just wont ever happen.

Answer 7

Just be a good friend. If you are there for her when she is in need then she will hopefully realize what a great person you are. Just try to do things with her and let her know you care. Don't push too hard just be yourself.

Answer 8

Wait a little while to see if she gets over her old boyfriend. If she still doesn't want to go out with you move on. It's her loss then.

Answer 9

Wait, my friend, be patient. haven't you heard good things come to those who wait.
my best advise is be a friend to her. do things with her to have fun and make the most of any time you have to spend with her. be honest and open, make sure that theres no alterior intentions to your actions cause she'll see straight through.
who knows what might happen if you just play it cool for a while.

Answer 10

give her time...it's not easy getting over somebody you love. I mean she probably loved her ex and its still hard for her. Trying becoming her friend. Like a shoulder to cry on and try being there for her when she needs someone. You know what they say best lovers are usually best friends!
Hope this helped!
-Kat

Answer 11

Call her and say, "what is wrong with going out for a pizza or coffee and just getting out for awhile to talk" Tell her she needs to lighten up and enjoy the afternoon or evening! Nothing serious, just get moving on with her life, she is alive! tell her!.