If a boy flirts with you alot then says he'll meet you somewhere and doesn't what does that mean. I mean I called him afterwards and he said he couldn't get out the house. Then I say that's ok and I get over it. However we were supposed to talk about us and where we're going in this relationship. I mean we haven't officially been called a couple, but we act like one. So when I called him he was really sorry he didn't go, but his parents wouldn't let him. (we're in highschool). So anyway he asks what would have happened if he did. I said I don't know. Was I right to do so?
2006-12-28 10:33:17 · 18 answers · asked by Daniela15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he likes you and just wants to know if you really thought of him as his gf. I think it was a good thing what you did but I think you should talk to him about where this is going. ~GOOD LUCK!!!!!!~
2006-12-28 10:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Your best friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy another chance. If the same thing happens, I would say to move on because his parents are going to be too overbearing in your relationship.
Also, you don't know what would have happened if you all had met up. I would suggest that you all meet somewhere like a Starbuck's or something to start out with, just to make sure this guy is honest. Let him know that you want to pursue a relationship and maybe he'll come around.
2006-12-28 10:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by Chanclito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds this guy may be trying to make a booty call. asking that question is usually to see if there is a chance that if he does get out of the house if he can get into your pants. this is only a posibility. I do not know the person, so I can't really make a good judgement on that. But if I had to make an assumption, that would be it. as for the flirting a lot, some guys fliert with every girl they know, even if they have a girlfriend. How well do you know this guy? If you trust him, try again. But heed my warnings, and bee carefull. I am a guy, I know how we think. (although I hate to admit that) anyway. good luck with the situation.
2006-12-28 10:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by my_name_is_what 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a difficult one to answer. If things are generally really cool between you - like you have great conversations and there seems to be a nice connection then it could be exactly as he said. Which was he couldnt go out. I would wait to see if it happens on a regular basis where he lets you down, then it might be more obvious he is playing with you. For now, just take things slowly and dont get too pushy with him. Only time will tell.
2006-12-28 10:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kalvin- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a tough spot. But in providing details of the incident a red flag popped out. "So anyway he asks what would have happened if he did." Why would he ask that? My gut feeling is that he wanted something from you, namely sexual contact. Be very careful, especially if you aren't even in a relationship with this guy.
So, you made plans to meet, he didn't show. Do you have a cell? Could he have called to say, I can't go? Yes, he should have.
2006-12-28 10:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be telling the truth. I would say the reason in high school that I would stand anyone up was insecurity, like "oh no, here comes the real deal...what should I do? running away sounds good..."
You haven't done anything wrong, and I wouldn't let it get to you. If he does it again, move on and don't look back. But as things stand, I would just take his word for it for now.
2006-12-28 10:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were definitely right to ask. You wanna know right? He's probably a little nervous and intimidated by what it might mean if you guys became a full-fledged item so make it easier on him and just be honest. Tell him you want to be official and I'm sure he'll say "Cool!" Life's too short to be wasting time playing games.
2006-12-28 10:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by Twinki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that you've scared him by overanalizing the relationship. Whenever a girl did this I ran.
Just enjoy the relationship.
2006-12-28 10:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by thomas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i'm 15 and my parents would kill me if i had a gf (there old fasshion ) so trust him ok me i flirt with alot girls but i love only 1 so to me flriting is just like talking lol
2006-12-28 10:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by jboy91148 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get up for your self. he's employing you and it is going to convey problems for you sooner or later. you ought to wind up struggling with together with his gf for no reason. by employing the way, if he's touching you, it extremely is harassment, in order that which you be attentive to.
2016-10-06 03:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by boland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋