Is it a bad thing to find love so early in life? Im only 15 but I know Im in love and Ive almost been with my boyfriend for a year. But it seems that just the thought of us EVER being broken up kills me , I really love him, my family does to, and his loves me , but everyone says that theres no way we will last much longer..
I love waking up to him and going to sleep cuddled up with him and seeing his smiling face and everything about him just makes me more crazy in love.
I love him more than anything , and more than any guy I have EVER been with.
I want us to be that couple that stays together for years then marries..
What are your thoughts on this?
Is it bad for me to have those feelings so early..
2006-12-28 10:20:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a friend who found "love" in 7th grade and they were together for six years. In her senior year he cheated on her. It was the nastiest breakup I've ever witnessed. So I do think it's ok to fall in love at a young age, just be awayre that people change. It may feel like you love him now but this is your first and most likely his too, since you're so young you'll want to explore more options when you mature into an adult. Some people are more meant to be together than others...and everything happens for a reason.
Don't think so negatively about it, it will be a wonderful life experience to have fallen in love at 15, it will make both you and your current boyfriend a better lover in the end.
2006-12-28 10:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by waste_of_paintx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a stage of young love, you know like puppy love. It's not so bad as older adults think. Even when young love ends, it's either a conversation on the phone, or a note passed in school or in your locker. At least it's not brutal like people my age. We go through so much and when it's all over it's so heart breaking and hard to date again. Young love can be a lot more innocent, just be cautious and take your parent's advise. And make sure he doesn't use you for the good stuff if you know what I mean. Stay precious!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-28 18:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother met my father when she was 13, and they are still going on strong. To me, there is no such thing as "just puppy love". We feel what we feel and there's no way to help it. Honestly, it's more special when you've known your love for a long time because you're sharing something many don't. You know eachother truly, not just who you are as adults. And about those people who say you won't last? SCREW THEM! Pardon my language. You're young and in love, that's the way it's gonna be.
2006-12-28 18:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by jamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the exact same situation, however everyone around my bf and i says that we're getting married.
i think that falling inlove at this age can't really be a BAD THING, & that you should just see this as "wow, things are amazing right now, and no matter what happens tomorrow or later on in life, i really do love him" & even if you're not together when you're older, you should just enjoy everyday you guys DO HAVE together
2006-12-28 18:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Vero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no. i think you 2 are deeply in love and love can fight anything meaning tht if ur love is strong u can make it last.
but u gotta remember u will have fights but if ur love is true u will go through them and will still be together and also tht we all have fights with our loved ones
the 1 negative point about fallin in love when ur young is tht if u break up tht pain will be so strong u might never get over with it but as i said before i think you have nothin to worry about he loves you and you love him
good luck!
2006-12-28 18:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am happy to hear that you feel in love at 15.There only one thing you should not for get.Please don't forget your best friends and family because you might need them to.
2006-12-28 18:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're too young to be falling asleep and waking up next to someone... you'll break up and you will also get over it. You need to stop trying to grow up and tie yourself down too fast or you'll be very sorry in the future.
2006-12-28 18:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Awesome-O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy what you have NOW. If you are insanely in love, then be happy! Don't worry about what tomorrow might or might not bring. We're not even there yet.
2006-12-28 18:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no WAY. dont listen to the ppl who say u wont last much longer. just stay in love. god knows this world needs all the love it can get..
2006-12-28 18:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fall in love alot in your life,, you move on and fall in love again,
only thing you can say is you start learning early that love hurts when you fall in love at 15
2006-12-28 18:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋