My boyfriend and I have been on and off for a few months now. We were together for 3 weeks but he broke up with me and got back together with his ex. We got back together 2 weeks later and then he broke up with me AGAIN and got together with another girl for 4 days. He broke up with her and we got back together. Should I break it off or stay with him?
2006-12-28 10:16:28 · 8 answers · asked by mel4o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you want to continue this emotional rollercoaster break it off. Sounds to me like he doesn't know what he wants, but if he really cared about you he wouldn't keep breaking it off. There is a reason behind it. Why on earth would you want to be with someone who doesn't really want to be with you? If he didn't learn the first time he left that he missed you wanted you in his life and didn't want to be apart from you how is this any different. Sounds like he likes the thought of being with you more than actually being with you. It's a pattern especially in light that he got back to with his ex girlfriend as well.
HE is the one with the problem not you. But if you continue to take him back you are enabling his problem and showing you are needy and will put up with his games. Value yourself more than that. Break it off take what you have learned and move on.
2006-12-28 10:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well stay with him if you like this on again off again thing. I wouldn't give this guy even the time of day. Go out and find someone who really wants to be with you, not somebody so wishy washy.
2006-12-28 18:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he leaves you, he goes straight to another female?---tell him GOOD BYE and mean it.He may give you something that you will regret.He's just using your love for him against you, don't let him.He must not want you to find a good MAN.The first time he left, you should've ignored him, so do it now......
2006-12-28 19:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christ, girl, I'm getting dizzy just reading about all that back and forth sh*t! Hang in there if you think it's fun, but I think that would get old real soon.
2006-12-28 18:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want him back if you know he broke up with you for his ex?
2006-12-28 19:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, he has no idea what he wants and you keep letting him come back to you, your being used!!!
2006-12-28 19:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's not for you sweetie, he is one who can't make up his mind. And whatever he picks he can't live with it. ( tottaly natural )
2006-12-28 18:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like worth it
2006-12-28 18:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by little asian gal in cresent city 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋