I do not know if it is ok to have sex at 15
2006-12-28 10:12:57 · 62 answers · asked by katie D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's your choice. If you are ready then it might be okay, but if you are having any doubts then don't.
2006-12-28 10:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you don't know that - then the truth is you're most likely not ready to have sex. Even if you have had it already - but you still have doubts don't have it until you're sure.
15 is a very young age and sex can change life in many ways, worst of all if you were to get a sexually transmitted disease or even pregnancy at that age.
Take your time hon and take it easy. Don't give into someone who wants to have sex if you're not ready. Delay it as long as you can, cause with it can come many problems too.
2006-12-28 10:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by WhoMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to have sex at 15. IF you are being pressured to do so, you are with the wrong partner anyway.
Sex may feel good physically but emotionally it creates phony relationships that might not last an extra minute if it wasnt for the sex act.
My first time was horrible. It hurt, I bled and I was very embarrassed even though I had dated my partner for almost two years first!!!
It took me until my mid-thirties to actually enjoy sex even though I said I did since I was 16!!!
2006-12-28 10:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not its illegal where ever u r. Plz dont do it now many ppl i have spoken with have regretted not waiting til they r married coz once u lose ur virginity u cant get it back. I would wonder tho y u r thinking along these lines do u just want to try it for kicks or do u need love and think this the way ur going to get it. If its coz u dont feel loved then this isnt the way to get love sex isnt love its just hormones mostly for the boys in their teens and tomorrow they will forget all about u coz once they get what they want they leave.
2006-12-28 10:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by loving_shy_lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're apprehensive because it doesn't feel right to you, then don't do it. But if you really want to and you love the guy you're with, and you're abstaining because society is telling you not to... then do it. Keep in mind that you're still a minor, so you should not have sex with an older man, as he could be held legally accountable... but I think you can have consentual sex with a boy your same age and be okay.
You can think for yourself and have a right to be happy and have fun. Just be safe, make sure it's right for you, and use protection!
2006-12-28 10:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 it is not o.k to have sex. Trust me i was 16 when i lost my virginity and i wished i would have waited until i found that special person. when you find that special person they will wait until your ready to have sex. If your asking is 15 to young then you already know the answer.
2006-12-28 10:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by LaQuinta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if it ok then obviously your not feeling comfortable with the situation! Don't rush into anything that your not positive about!! If a guy really cares about you he will be willing to wait as long as it takes and NOT pressure you.
Your special and your worth the wait and if a guy cant see that then he obviously aint worth it. Rushing into sex can lead to alot of different problems.
Talk to a trusted adult or someone you trust before jumping into something your not positive about!!
2006-12-28 10:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its not OK to have sex at 15. You need to have a chance to enjoy life as a teen first. What makes you think that is so important in a relationship at that age. Before you need to think, Can I raise a child, support myself, finish school. Enjoy your life before hand. You will respect yourself later!!!
2006-12-28 10:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by c_schreel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait you should be thinking about making good grades in school and going off to one of the best college you can get in and let that having sex thing get out of your mind it is really over rated it's not all it is said to be honey baby let sex come way after your further is in place good schooling,good job, good husband,wonderful house large banking account then maybe think about sex and the things that follow having it.
2006-12-28 10:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is definately not ok. if you are not ready to be a parent then dont have sex. things happen protection does not always work. you will need to be responsible enough to deal with the consequences if something happened. i know your body is changing and its really hard to control your feelings. you need to make sure that when you have sex it is for love and not for lust. hold on to it sweetie, once its gone you can never get it back.
2006-12-28 10:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by country girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puberty arrives before your mind has a time to mature! You need to get the facts that are involved with sex...pregnancy, diseases, and protection! Go to the free health clinic...every town has one and ask lots of questions! If you can't do this than you are not ready!!! Sex can ruin your life if you can't handle properly!
2006-12-28 10:18:03 · answer #11 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋