ok well my sister has been friends with this kid Sal and yesterday she and him were talkin n he said that now that im bigger (he knew me sincce i was little) im cute.......wtf? thats so weird
n he kept talkin 2 me yesterday so i knew sumthin was up...but wat should i do about this...i had a crush on him wen i was like 10 or 11 but now im jus plain confused about my feelings for him b/c wen i liked him he was "good" but now hes gettin into like smokin n drinking.........Watt do I do about him!?!?!?!?!?!?
2006-12-28 10:10:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way me n him are 3 yrs apart
2006-12-28 10:17:46 · update #1
um...jus sum extra details...
1.hes not datin my sister they are like 5 yrs apart n my sis already has a bf.
2.hes not a druggie, he jus tried it b/c his other friends did it.
2006-12-28 10:24:17 · update #2
umm tell him if he likes you he will stop doing the things that you dont like him doing.. dont thiink about it too much..
2006-12-28 10:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by pixiejvgurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Three years is a little too much of an age spread at this stage. Sounds like he's been dating your sister, which already means that he is taboo. That would only create problems between you and your sister. In addition, you know already that he's doing things that he should not be doing. Remember that you are known by the company you keep...if he's known as a druggie, other people will think you are too.
2006-12-28 10:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by nkorb1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him that you don't want to be dating someone who drinks and smoke, i would like to have a health bf, who drinks only once in a while. Then maybe you should tell him how you feel, but you don't have to, but it will probably help you with your decision.
2006-12-28 10:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost and leave you alone...YOU ARE NOT GOING TO CHANGE HIM! Don't lie to yourself. People are what they are. Find someone with your values and your age...
2006-12-28 10:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Voyager01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for someone else. good luck, happy holidays and have a happy new year.
2006-12-28 10:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be careful
2006-12-28 10:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by the w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋