Should i ask him?

Question

SOOOO theres this boy that i have liked sinced august it has been said that he asks about me alot around my friends. We ALWAYS make eye contact but i am very shy and dont know if i should ask him out

Answer 1

Yes do it... you just have to work your self up and go in and get it over with... don't be shy about it because once you have asked there's no going back

Answer 2

Absolutely you should ask him out.

There is nothing wrong with that at all.

Just be aware that there IS a possibility he will say no, and if that happens be mature about it and don't let it turn into a thing.

He may also be shy, if you are attracted to him definetly make the first move !!

Good luck with this, I hope it works out the way you want it too.

Answer 3

well,YES, ask him out and this will help you.... :)

Be in the right place. It's best to ask someone out in person, so you've got to make sure to be where the guy you have a crush on is. This could be at the mall, the movies, or maybe at the baseball field if he's an athlete. You don't want to look like a stalker, but you do want to be able to talk to him.
Take the intiative. Unfortunately, many guys are too afraid to walk up to a girl and ask her out. Take matters into your own hands. Walk up to him slowly and introduce yourself. Try not to do this if he's extremely busy, but at the same time, don't let the opportunity to talk to him pass you by just because you're nervous. If he seems receptive when you introduce yourself, keep on talking to him.
Make small talk with him. Break the ice by commenting on something he's wearing or saying something about the place or event you're at. Just try to get him to feel comfortable around you.
Make eye contact with him. While the two of you are talking, make eye contact and try to hold it for just a little longer than you normally would--just two or three seconds. If he makes eye contact back, he's probably interested in you. Make sure he's not looking at you because you're doing something extremely weird or because he is the cashier.
Commence flirting. This can mean touching him lightly on the arm, for example, or laughing at his jokes. Just be playful and communicate that you're interested. Sometimes you can flirt from afar and entice him to come over to you.
Ask him non-intrusive questions about himself, such as what kinds of things he likes to do, what his favorite kind of food is, or if he likes to play sports. By asking harmless little questions you can find out more about him to determine if you really want to ask him out, and you might find out if he has a girlfriend. You can also set the conversation up to ask him out.
Ask him out. Once you find something you both have in common, ask if he'd like to do it together sometime. If you don't succeed in finding something you have in common, you might not really find him that interesting, but if you want to take a chance, just let him know that you'd like to hang out with him again.


If he says no, or if he seems like he needs more time, don't get too upset; always say you can just be friends if that's what he wants. Chances are, he'll change his mind. Guys do this a lot. Whatever you do, don't trash him to others; it makes you look bad.
If he says yes, then plan where and when you will go out, and don't forget to have fun. Since you asked, you should pay for the date, unless he insists.

Answer 4

eye contact i think is the best way of flirtin and showin u like somone deeply. you shouldnt go up to him suddenly and ask him out. have a conversation with try to have a long one and if gives hints tht he likes u then u can make a move

Answer 5

does he know that you like him. because if you just go up to him and ask him out just randomly then you might catch him off gaurd and he might get freaked out because he didnt know that the same thing happend to me and i asked him to sadies and know he doesnt talk to me but hes still doing the same thing as what happinin to you, like the asking around and the eye contact but im not even sure if he likes me soo just wait a while longer and see what happens

Answer 6

ok make a note saying "ive liked you for a long time and that you would like to go out with him and that is he doesnt then that is ok" dont tell any of your friends that you gave him the nots also dont let his firends see you give it to him tell him not to tell anyone or show anyone. that way if he does say no then no1 will make fun of you

Answer 7

Talk to him but please do not make the first move. Let him ask you out, but do place yourself in the same circle with him to give him the chance to ask you out.

Answer 8

i think that you should ask b.c if u know that he likes you what do you have to loose and not being funny but the worst thing he can say is no.

Answer 9

Sure, ask him to go to lunch some time - what do you have to lose?

Answer 10

Just go for it, seems right to me