How would u take it if ya new bf said that u should do 350 pelvic floor exercises a day..?

Question

And that he wishes u were a virgin again? Im 26 and have a son, and i never had this problem with my ex. ?

my ex is well endowed, but still my ew bf is not that small and he is very confident about his winky! I dnt get it?

Thanks guys :o) it just upsets me because whenever we have sex he takes so long to come and sometimes he does not at all.

well, im not out of shape. Im a healthy weight for my height and have D cup breasts so im very in proportion. But what does size have to do with my vagina? please someone? Also he thinks my body is sexy coz he tells me everyday! he is the best bf in everyother way only the comments he makes and the long sex we have ( which sometimes ends in me coming and him not!)is starting to put doubts in my head?

Answer 1

Talk about a jerk. If you think that he's so confident about his winky, you're sadly mistaken. He is obviously incredibly insecure about it. If he wants it to feel like a virgin, tell him to go find one. You aren't and you're never going to be. Nothing good will come from you staying with him. You will never get over him making these kind of remarks. Every time you have sex you'll be worried that he's about to fall all the way in. Dump him. No one will ever be "tight" enough for him. Tell him to go find a fanny to stick it in if he's that hung up on tight and then find yourself a real man.

Answer 2

Let's give him the benefit of doubt for just a moment... first, do you feel like you'd like to be in better shape? Not because he is suggesting it, but because you'd like to be? If so, you may want to consider working out some, though I am not sure 350 is a reasonable count!

But really, from the little you have written, it sounds like his expectations are completely outside of reality. So much so from the short bit given that my first thoughts tend to be the many many insults towards him that just naturally pop to mind from this.

Yet, you are writing here asking which mean you are either seeking confirmation that he is out there in his comments (which I think you've received), or that maybe there are also good traits he has that you've not mentioned and you are looking for confirmation not to throw him out and move on. In the case of the later, you'll need to talk to him about his expectations, and may need to be the bigger person and revisit my first comments here (really though, I'm thinking he probably doesn't have much in the way of redeeming traits).

Answer 3

If you can have sex with a man that wishes you were a virgin again, then go ahead.I think he's trying to make you feel loose--He my dear is insecure and always will be if you don't tell him to make your muscles tighten up by himself.Some men just have to find fault. If he was such a good boyfriend, then why is he trying to act like you have sexual flaws?Let him do without, then you'll see if he gets it quicker.If he's young and can't get it, HE has a problem.....

Answer 4

I think he is the one who has a complex...don't let him play head games with you and make you feel bad...our body's are never the same after we bear children but never the less they are beautiful and if he doesn't like yours well then tell him to hit the road a look for one that is up to his standards because you will find someone who appreciates your body and will love you no matter what.

Answer 5

I'm all for two people helping each other to gain a healthy lifestyle but he sounds a bit "controlling".
Be proud of who you are! Be happy!

Answer 6

girl i would be upset he wants you to be skinnier and a virgin? hes calling you fat. its also kinda hard to be a virgin if you have a kid.

Answer 7

Tell him to F off.

Answer 8

Maybe he is looking for you to tighten that butt.

Answer 9

kick his sorry a** to the curb!

Answer 10

tell him to go f.u.c.k. a nun an see how tight she is!