How do u ask a boy, when u like him?

Question

how do u ask a boy if u wanna be his girlfriend i mean i wanna purpose him,.. but i dont know what i must say..
Help!

Thx

Answer 1

Start a conversation with him. And then just say, "I really like you, wanna go out?"

Or start a conversation and try to find who he likes. If he won't tell you, say something along the lines of, "I'll tell you who I like if you promise you'll tell me who you like after." Then spill and see what happens.

Answer 2

Well, This should help.... :)



Be sure he likes you! If he doesn't you'll end up with one broken heart and turn scarlett red due to shear embarrassment or, in some cases, rejection.
Ask his friends whether he likes different girls in your class(go down a list of girls to ask, e.g. Amanda, Laura, Magda, Phoebe etc.).
If you realize he may like you,slip hints(like a cook up a nice conversation on something simple, like homework on in a class), when you walk past him or when talking to him, brush against him 'accidentally'!
Further on, you need to give him a look. Hold the look for about 2 seconds,then look away. 3 seconds later repeat that step and then look at him 1 final time to see if he is looking back your way!
If you're sure he likes you, you can get a friend to tell him (preferably a friend who he has known for a while)
Be really nice to him and try to make something you bond over if he has a girlfriend stay away from him..
Start sitting next to him whenever you get the chance try to make something you two can bond over
Act confident around him.
Always believe him, unless it sounds kind of shady.
Don't try too hard... no guy likes a girl over-trying or desperate. Even if you are, play it 'cool-n-casual' and act laid back.

Answer 3

I think that you should get to kno the person first an if you already do then try asking him if he would like to hang out with you at the park or if he wants to go to the movies or lunch an jus tell him that you think he is a really nice guy an that you have feelings for hime an if he does too then maybe you should date an see how it goes an if not then that you hope it doesn't affect your friendship.... it a good way to start, at least i think so....

Answer 4

You wanna know what gets me the best results, and I'm telling you this from experience. Have a friend do it! With purposing it's a different story, but dating...just let your friend or sibling do it. This way, you won't mess up because of being nervous.

Answer 5

Dont make a big deal of it and ask yourself if you really want to be a girlfriend. If you are under 18 dont bother. go play the field.

Answer 6

Maybe get to know him first. Take it slow(even when you don't want to. It's for the best). If you've never talked to him before and go up to him he might be freaked out. Talk to him when he's not around his friends. Guys can be real jerks when they're w/their friends. Just to show off.

Answer 7

heyy, i would likee too helpp youu, okk, you want to ask a boy to get with uu,
well aree u friends with him, becuasee itt will bee very very weridd, to just go up to someonee that is nott urr friend andd u say the thing i will tell uuu, sooo talk to himm, first , andd thenn ask him " if he would like to go out sometime and get to know each other. if you both know each other well, tell him how you feel and ask him to go out. "

Answer 8

DO NOT ASK HIM. Let him ask you. Look up how to flirt. Ask him if he has a girlfriend. Show an interest in what he is about. If you do all that and he is interested, he will ask you.

Answer 9

ask him if he is dating any one then if he isn't then just ask him out then keep on doing this then after you feel comfortable tell him that you don't want to date anyone else but him.

Answer 10

are you friends? because otherwise its going to come off wierd. if you don't know each other well, ask if he would like to go out sometime and get to know each other. if you both know each other well, tell him how you feel and ask him to go out.