So I have this friend with benefits right but he's gotta girl so he has never given me his number and everytime he calls he calls private. And last time I told him I hate when he calls private so I asked for his number and he said he don't want me having his number. But yet he tells me he thinks about me and misses me. What the hell is all that about?
2006-12-28 09:56:33 · 44 answers · asked by nicenjuicy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he cares bout u he would give u his number. he's using u. good luck, happy holidays and have a happy new year.
2006-12-28 09:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think he has a selfish interest in you(perhaps just sex), and when he gets that he goes his way. There are so many logical reason for his not giving you his number. Well if he doesn't want you having it don't bother about answering his "private" calls again. And tell him why you won't be answering his calls with his number witheld. If he cares about you he should show it, but still watch it, there might be some selfish interest in all of this.
2006-12-28 10:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by redeemedmikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness I think maybe he is in a hard timee right now. Don't try to bribe him to give you his number. He is maybe having hard times or family issues what until the right time. If nothing happends in the next two weeks maybe you should give him a private talk. Well maybe he doesn't want you to have his number because he has a girlfriend! omg its so clear to me now. Maybe he'll think you might get in to talking to much ( if you know what I mean) Just Wait is all I can say. Hope it works out:-)
2006-12-28 10:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him, he's using you. Dont fall for his "i miss you's" thats sweet nothings. You can find a better man who'll not ONLY give you his number, but you'll be the only girl in his life. How exactly do you think your relationship with him is going to end? your gonna end up hurt because he will never want anything other than "benefits" with you. His GF should Drop him too. He's a dumbass. How about you meet up with his gf and you 2 break up with him at the same time. So he ends up alone. He's just..HORRIBLE!
2006-12-28 10:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by soul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he has not made you his first priority. If he has a girl, then that right there is your answer. Are they exclusive? Did you know this before you let your friendship rise to the next level? If he doesn't want to give you his number, then you don't want the aggravation and heartache he's going to give you if you continue in this relationship. It's time to back out and find someone who does want you. You deserve better than to be invisible in a world where he wants someone other than you. If he wanted only you, there wouldn't be another girl, and I would bet you would have his number.
2006-12-28 10:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello! he wants his cake and eat it too. So, don't take anymore private no. calls, sooner or later he'll get the hint. why would you want someone elses seconds? You are better than that. He's not much of a friend if he won't even give you his phone number.
2006-12-28 09:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is using you. He doesn't want to give you his number cause he doesn't want his girlfriend to find out. He is telling you he thinks about you and misses you cause that is what you want to hear. He is not your friend either was he would give you his number. Sorry but you are just a piece on the side.
2006-12-28 10:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by undertowrottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he has a girlfriend he doesn't want to take the chance of being exposed. If he calls you private there is no proof of communication, but if you get his number he is taking a big chance of being exposed.
2006-12-28 10:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by LaQuinta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you. He gets to have all the "benefits" of a woman with you, without any commitment. As long as you don't have his number, he only has to "deal with you" when he wants to.
You should walk away and find a real man; one that will treat you with dignity & respect.
Good luck!
2006-12-28 09:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by T S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is justa using u and you are gonna end up getting hurt.. but if your fine with u and him doing things while he has a girl well then thats all on you.. would you want your b/f to be doing that behind your back.. forget about him and dont answer any private call either..
2006-12-28 10:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by pixiejvgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares for you then he should drop the other one. Don't keep falling for his lines. He just wants to keep the other gf and string you along. Go out and find you a guy that you can call and who can call you. Best wishes.
2006-12-28 10:00:53 · answer #11 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋