i have a georgeous guy who loves me but i am aware im a little overweight, hence i come with some lovehandles , so i feel really concious of this when we are in bed, does anyone have any tips so i can get over this and be a bit of a devil in bed?help please!
2006-12-28 09:51:13 · 15 answers · asked by shadow 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Nothing wrong with abit of love handles..better than being a stick I know most guys feel this way. Anyway if u not too confident, try exercise abit to lose the excess. Maybe suggest jogging together. Get to lose weight and have fun 2getha. Makes ppl want to have sex more aftawards anyway, maybe cos of the adrenalin still pumping and cortizone being released when u exercise...then u get more time to try be a little devil. Its a win-win situation ;)
2006-12-29 02:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may seem like a cliche but you have to love yourself before anyone else can love you hence you said your boyfriend loves you-therefore you must love yourself! Try meditating with some candles and try to focus on what's special about you. You are much more than the number reflected on the scales, you're a special being who attracted this other person simply by being you! When you learn to focus on this and the love you have for eachother you'll begin to release yourself more, just let go and enjoy yourself -release the devil within- you're special and remember that ! Good Luck!!!
2006-12-28 10:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by lovely girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, in my opinion, before u can begin to show your sexy devilish side in bed, you have to feel comforatble with your body...of course, most of us know that. first of all, lovehandles here and there aint such a bad thing, some guys actually like that, and perhaps your guy in particular may like that. If he is making comments about your weight, analyze them, are they productive comments or just comments that'll bring you down? if its the second one, then obviously, he needs to be gone! dont change yourself to please others! ESPECIALLY not a shallow guy. But, on the other hand if he's making comments that may help you, then kudos to him!
If you are that uncomfortable with yourself, just begin to slowly expercise here and there... youdont have to hit the ultimate skinny weight to feel beautiful and sexy... the effort youput into it alone will lift your confidence and it is then that you will unleash the she devil within you.
thats the best i have...im sure weve all heard it many times but as cliche as it is...its very true!! Wish you best!
2006-12-28 10:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by MariaG83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get like that, but to if your in love he should not notice to much, tell him how you feel, see if he can help you with that, and if it makes you feel better, get a exercise dvd, have ago at it a couple of times a week i would recommend dancercise by Lucy benjamins
2006-12-28 09:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a bit overweight to my man doesn't mind either. i am starting to feel self conscious to when he cuddles me. a few years ago when i met him i was alot thinner but he says he can't tell the difference. well exercise and eating less is the answer to losing weight and getting fitter but the hard bit is doing it. in the mean time just get drunk and then you don't care anyway.
2006-12-28 10:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by me plus 4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you knw ive had many relationships, if the man who loves you is with you, he love you for you, and not anyone else, try eatting healthier, exercise on a basics rather than just to lose weight, you will feel better, and eventually ull be more flexable in bed! take care!
2006-12-28 10:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by caramel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your guy doesn't seem to mind. I feel the same way. but don't think about it. exspecially when your in your bed. and start feeling good about yourself. and think of him, and only him, and some guys like a little love handles, compare to the real thin woman.
2006-12-28 10:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is in your first sentence, .. you have a gorgeous guy who loves you!!! Many girls who are slim, and appear more confident do not have what you have. You should be proud of who you are and the man you have. What you do in the bedroom is obviously enough for him as he loves you as you are!
2006-12-28 10:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by Princess415 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk erect with head up, this will make you appear 5 pouns lighter.
in bed: keep the lights off until you are comfortable. or wear a teddy with no underwear.
2006-12-28 09:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why feel that way if your man loves you the way you are? if your happy with him an he's happy with you, what's the problem? if your really unhappy then lose some weight if it makes you feel that bad, good luck!
2006-12-28 09:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by nameless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋