i talk to this guy...who said he likes me ....but everytime i talk to him...we talk for a while ..then gets so busy when i ask him wat is he doing he says am talkin to my friends..and when i ask him about who r these friends he says they r girls...
and he says he likes me but he doesnt give me any attention he is always busy with some other girls..
im sure he doesnt have any other relaitonship with other girls
why is he teaseing me? or is he just saying that?
i dont get him..
2006-12-28 09:50:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't think about it too much. Men are stupid... you didn't know that already???...
They love to play these "stupid" games because they haven't grown up yet..
2006-12-28 09:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he is giving attention to other girls, and you are not actually officially dating do something to capture his interest.
You might try being very forward sexually or doing something sexual that you normally wouldn't. oral sex, anal sex, something that is normally reserved as a treat. This will put you closer to the front of his mind.
If you aren't comfortable doing anything sexual and some of the other girls he has mentioned are putting out, chances are you are not going to get anywhere with the guy. You need to put up or shut-up at this point.
If you are not comfortable doing anything sexual and he is NOT getting sex from the other girls he mentioned to you, then find out something he really likes and go learn about it. Then bring it up in a conversation. He may , at first, pay little attention to what you are saying, especially if it is something that women are generally less interested in than guys, but as soon as you start talking with a little knowledge he will warm up and probably be impressed. You will have achieved some coomon ground at that point, so capitalize on it, try to make a date to do something together related to the toopic.
Remember always that there are a lot fish in the sea and they all want to swim. If you can't capture his interest then you are not deserving of him and you should look for someone you have more in common with.
Good Luck to you with your friend !
2006-12-28 10:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by aural_exstacy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, I'm going through the same thing, what I do is just get him alone and ask him what's going on with you do you like me or not. When I'm around him he starts to flirt with someone, then I just look at him he says what and I say nothing just to pretend that it doesn't bother me. He finally asked if it made me jealous I said no and walked off. He followed, and all of a sudden he wasn't to busy talking with some other girl. So just pretend like it doesn't bother you, just don't take it to far. He'll come around when he realizes that him flirting or trying to make you jealous isn't working. As long as he knows, or thinks that it's bothering you then he'll keep doing it. Boys are smarter than they act.
2006-12-28 10:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Daniela15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes playing games with your emotion, If he likes you then he should be able to keep it real with you. Im sure you dont have time to play games either its not middle school ya know. He might like that fact that he keeps you guessing and wants you to chase him and at the same time talking to other girls doing the same thing, think about, no guy just talks to a bunch of girls just as friend.
2006-12-28 10:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Young South 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh.... Sounds like he has a girlfriend and is telling you he doesnt... If thats NOT the case (Id be surprised) but they could also just be friends. Guys can have friends that are girls. Im friends with alot of guys... I can tell you from personal experience that if my guy friends were dating a girl who had a problem with being friends with me, he would stop dating them in a heart beat, so be careful.
2006-12-28 09:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy that you are talking about seems like he's trying to make you want him more but it is just pushing you away. You can find someone better then him. Or you could play the same game, but that may waste your time. If he is to busy for you then forget about him, but that is my opinion.
2006-12-28 09:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most us guys do have more girls that are just friends but I used this befor.he is trying get u jealous but he's also playing hard to get.He waiting on u make a move.
2006-12-28 09:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by rfrandy2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to increase the want factor. hes talking to those girls, or saying he is, so u think he's cool and that girls want him. ask him if he likes u as a friend or more. if he says more than a friend, than say, what r u waiting for? ask me out
2006-12-28 09:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop wasting your time on him, he problably not interested an is jus playing games wit your emotions. i say move on to some one better. Or you can jus tell him to keep those other girls or be straight foward with you instead of going thru all the stupid hoops
2006-12-28 09:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by s3xY m@ma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop questioning him you sound needy and insecure.
Just chill out. Go do things with your friends, and do not worry about him. Date him and see where it goes but STOP sweating him.
As soon as he sees you are not worried about him, that's when he'll come around.
2006-12-28 09:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋