i have a two pt.question about a guy?

Question

i've known this guy for about five years and i always liked him and we never really talked alot but we did talk so after the third year we kinda lost all complete contact (hes my moms friends son) well his mom is in the hospital and we now just saw eachother he was askin about his computer (and im kinda good with computers) so my mom said ill help him and he can call me or pick me up any time (this just hapened about an hour ago) so now im forced to go over his house what should i do because i cant tell my mom she'll throw a fit if she knew (hes five years older than me)


2nd part

i wanna tell my sister but she has a big mouth but she promised to not say any thing and she really wants to no so i told her illl ask yahoo



so what do you think?

plz help

oh and my mom doesn't no about this she just loves me to use my comuter skills to show off

Answer 1

1. Would the two of you be alone while you're teaching him how to use the computer? If no adults will be present while you teach him, you should be cautious about going over to his house alone. Older guys are usually not virgins and very much interested in having sex. I know that you liked him at somepoint, but whether you're ready for sex is entirely different. The last thing you want is to rush to have sex or having your feelings hurt by him. Don't put yourself in a position where you are entirely vunerable to his advances. Maybe you could teach him how to use the computer at a library, school, FedKinkos, or somewhere public where you won't be alone but have some privacy.

2. You know how your sister is from past experiences with her, I say keep it to yourself. It will prevent you from resenting your sister entirely should she intentionally or inadvertently say your secret. Perhaps, you can share it with a trustworthy bestfriend.

Answer 2

1st:
you should help him with the computer... i'm not 100% sure if he likes you da way u like him. But i wouldn't be alone with him for a very long time.

2nd:
For some reason i tend to have a big mouth... even when people tell me secrets... a few of them seem to come out somehow... i personally wouldn't tell your sister

talk to the guy though... and just relax....

play it cool...

don't get all hyped up about it and such...

good luck!!!