Although I haven't gone out with someone yet, it just seems to happen that all the crushes I've had are on girls older than me by 1 or 2 years, will that be any problem if I did ask my crush out? Would she think it's creepy or something? Does this mean I dont have as good as a shot?
2006-12-28 09:29:07 · 50 answers · asked by Slash102 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i dont think thats weird jsut be ready for some differences tho. i am a 19 yr old girl dating an 18 yr old guy he jsut turned 18 in dcember. he is a yr n 7 months younger than me. we have alot of obstacles cuz of our ages but now he has matured n we are better but it takes time cuz we are both not ever really on the same page. just be ready to work for it. my guy asked me out wen i was a senior n he was a sophmore in high school. he was scared to do it cuz i was older n he was in ur position but he did it n we both found the best relationship of our life. i think that its worth a shot if she turn u down then fine so be it at least u wont be wondering "what if" n u can say at lest u tried. life is too short. good luck!!!
2006-12-28 09:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Fahion_Gal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will probably not think it is creepy. She will probably just think it is cute. But it will depend on how mature you are. It will probably be tough if you are 12 to 18, and she is two years older than you as there are a few of years in there such as 13, 16 and 18 that are milestone years where a girl won't feel comfortable with a guy two years younger.
2006-12-28 09:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. One or two years makes no difference. She will not think it is weird at all. In fact there is a lot of this going around these days. So if you are really interested in someone who is older than you then don't hesitate to ask her out. I have done this and found it no problem at all. In fact some girls seem to like it a lot.
2006-12-28 09:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband isn't here right now, so I can only answer you from the point of view of the girl who is older.
I fell in love with my husband at the age of 14. However, he was 13 and I told myself that I only loved him like a brother. In my heart of hearts, I knew better, but that year meant that I was robbing the cradle. So, I dated a whole bunch of other guys and I was engaged a couple of times. But it always came back to him.
When he was 21, and I was not, he told me that we were getting married. Instead, I met someone and married them. The marriage lasted 10 years. My husband married another girl on the rebound.
In 1981, with two children, my first marriage fell apart. At about the same time, so did my husband's. Funny thing is that when we were both so hurt, even though we hadn't spoken directly with each other in over 10 years, my husband called me. The rest is history.
We got our divorces and married each other in June of 1981. We're married 26 years now and we raised my two children and his three. We only have eyes for each other and we've been crazy about each other from day one. I was the one who allowed societal opinion and my own prejudices to keep us from happiness for ten years. Don't do what I did. Give it a chance.
2006-12-28 09:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by nkorb1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on how old you are. The older you are the less difference an age gap makes. I'm 29 and actually prefer younger guys. But thats just me. You can always ask her out and see what happens. The worst she can say is no.
2006-12-28 09:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 1 or 2 is nothing.. i thought you were going to say 10 years or older. no problem, she may actaully look younger than you if it's just a 1 or 2. go for her, even if she was 10 years older than you. if you are attracted to older women go for them and live your life and stop worrying about what other people think. They are busy living their lives Now live yours..
2006-12-28 09:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Life is FUn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are, if you are younger, than 2 years can be a big difference, but the older you get, the less the age difference matters..
2006-12-28 09:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has no age. I don't think that is important. I have an aunt that is 46 yrs old and goes out w/a guy that is 28. They get along just great, and they look happy together. Go for it
2006-12-28 09:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by FairyNice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no big deal to date women older than you! Age is just a number anyway, it is what is inside that counts. If you and her hit it off, get along great and make each other happy then that is all that counts. Don't let age stop you from what makes you happy.
2006-12-28 09:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by bashfulblonde97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say stick to girls your own age because if you plan on being with them for the rest of your life....well lets just say its not to good, studys have shown that the average females skin ages alot faster than a males so by the time your 40, she could be just mabye.....43, and have wrinkles and crows feet all over her. its not a good idea. (no offence to any women reading this thread, i do have respect for you, it was a study)
2006-12-28 09:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋