My boyfriend is becoming a little to clingy. And when I dont feel like going to see him he gets mad.
2006-12-28 09:26:55 · 23 answers · asked by Tiffany B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you will eventualy shake him. maybe you should just tell him. He has feeling too.
2006-12-28 09:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to prepare for it. First, ask hm for a cool off time, it's for yourself and for the relationship. You have to make it clear what is it that you don't want with him, if he is just being too clingy that is so shallow, love is the basis for this and not his constant attachment to you. Tell him that you're feeling too choked up with the relationship and needs time to think it over, give a timeframe (1 or 2 weeks)so he will not be waiting forever (if you really planing continue breaking up with him). Then after that you might think of things like do you really want him back, or the reasons maybe of why you don't him back and of course with this, you also need to think of plans of how to deliver this?
2006-12-28 09:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Risa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what's wrong with boy/girl relationships... expecting behaviour and commitment as if they were grown up and married. The best way to 'break up' from your boyfriend is to TELL him to get lost and leave you alone !! If he does not then it become harassment and tell the police !! - Or you may prefer the other method... make sure he sees you kissing another guy... that should do it !!
2006-12-28 09:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by RED-CHROME 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just break up with him instead of making him do it. You need to be honest and just tell him you dont like how clingy he is and you dont want ot be with him.
2006-12-28 09:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by dimplez0804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tiffany, you are a grown up, strong, independent woman. You don't need to get him to break up with you. Break up with him. Just do it. It will hurt, more than you think, but it's part of being in a relationship. You owe yourself, and him. Do the right thing girl!
2006-12-28 09:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is to try to understand him and his personality. He's clingy and you are not. There is still help for you if you can compromise with him. It all starts with communication! Good luck!
2006-12-28 09:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be the better person and break up with him. Tell him its not working out and that you don't want to see him any more. If you wait for him to do it you may be waiting for a very looooong time.
2006-12-28 09:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says you can't break up with him? Women have just as much rights and power as men. Don't wait for him to do it. If you feel uncomfortable dating him, do the right thing and let him know.
2006-12-28 15:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by ~∂Їβ~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez you going to get upset about someone being clingy? He just likes you, thats all whats wrong with that?
Anyway, you wanna get him to break up with you, easy...
find out who it is he absolutely hates...find that guy...and make out with him in front of him, be sure to be seen holding his hands...and have that guy go up to him or you go up to him and say something like...hey this guy and I, he wants to have sex with me, and I think I am going to take him up on his ofer...promise you he will leave then!!!
2006-12-28 09:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by gshelton11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him how you feel. Don't play games girl! Just break up with him if things aren't working. Good luck.
2006-12-28 09:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Katie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm you should just break up with him. But if you want him to break up with you then make it obvious your seeing another guy and date someone else and have him catch you. That should work.
2006-12-28 09:30:59 · answer #11 · answered by FishyFace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋