i talk to...who said he likes me ....but everytime i talk to him...we talk for a while ..then gets so busy when i ask him wat is he doing he says am talkin to my friends..and when i ask him about who r these friends he says they r girls...
and he says he likes me but he doesnt give me any attention he is always busy with some other girls..
why is he teaseing me? or is he just saying that?
i dont get him..
2006-12-28 09:23:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, you have to let this one go. he's playing with you. think about it, if i was to have interest in you, the last thing i want to say to you is "i'm busy with another girl". come on now, can't you see it? you're being played. don't play this game, you'll lose every time. don't even bother with this one. in fact, stay clear from him.
2006-12-28 09:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men can be such idiots. This one likes the attention you give him because it strokes his ego. He's using you when he has nothing better to do. As long as you make him feel As if he is your whole world, he'll bask in his glory and only see or talk to you when someone better isn't available. If his ego needs stroking ,he can always fall back on second best, you. He's not even a good friend, let alone boyfriend material.
Dump him quickly and when you do, tell him you know you deserve better. Let him know he's not the be-all-end-all that he believes himself to be.
2006-12-28 17:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by lothespiritalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are what we have dubbed HIGH MATAINENCE you require alot of attention but we aint got the time or energy to make it a 200% relationship you gotta put in the other 100% cuzz if you don't it only leads to heartache for us and pain for the rest of the world cuz as hard headed as you are now you will be even worse if it doesn't work out and we just aint willing to pick up your slack a second time..."notice how the male keeps distracting himself hoping the female can use her natural instinct to make light of the situation...wait what is this the female seems to be attacking the male oh not a good sign.."
2006-12-28 17:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Primus Amare 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay. Guys like this are players. He wants you to want him. And he wants a reaction when he says "other girls." I wouldn't take this crap because it leads to further mind games. He's probably pulling the same stuff with other girls. Next time he says stuff like that, don't hesitate to shoot back, "but I thought you said you like me." You need a title for this relationship. Dating? Serious? Casual? Ask him about it, and if you're comfortable with what he says than stick with it if he knocks off all these mind games. Bottom line: If he doesn't knock it off, tell him he needs to go
2006-12-28 17:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he has a lot of female friends.
I'm guessing he has told all of his female friends, including you, that he likes them.
Does he have any guy friends that he talks to? I would assume that he is not in love with anyone right now.
He probably just enjoys all the attention he gets from girls.
He might be waiting to see if anything magical happens, such as his falling in love with anyone or if one of you girls gives him sex.
He definitely isn't taking any of his relationships seriously.
2006-12-28 17:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's playing games, trying to make you jealous. Perhaps he's insecure and is trying to make you jealous so you will pursue him. Either way, the game is tired and dumb. Best approach is to just ask him what's up. Be straight forward, let him know you like him (if you do) and that you're not into the mind games.
2006-12-28 17:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by sorcha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may want to move on. If he can't be open and honest with you, you don't want to be in a relationship with him. If he is hanging out with other girls don't overreact. He may really like you, but you should always let him have his friends. If you don't he may feel like you are controlling him. And you don't want that. A good relationship means compromises from both parties.
2006-12-28 17:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If someone really likes you they make it a point to spend one on one time to get to know you. If they are too busy with other people to do that then he is just not that into you. He is probably weighing his options with all these girls
2006-12-28 17:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by blakcroxxes 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He only wants you for one thing. If he liked you he would give you the attention you deserve. Try pulling the same things on him. Play hard to get, and see how he reacts to it. That will let you find out how he truly feels.
2006-12-28 17:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by A T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The guy just wants to be friends because he isn't ready for a relationship yet. He just wants to play around and stuff.
2006-12-28 17:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋