I was dating a guy who wasn't helping our relationship foundation. So I began 2 see others. No I found another & am dating him but he's gang affiliated & a rough neck around his friends but when we're together he's sweet as pup(not kitten). Well he has a cell phone & won't give me the number 4 it b/c he says it's his business phone, but there's another guy who's interested in me & asked me about him & our relationship. I didn't mind, but when I got 2 the cell phone issue he said that's no excuse be/ his girlfriend (if he had 1) would have his cell, chirp, house, & all connects. Then he told me the other guy isn't my boyfriend 4 that reason & b/c he hasn't been by 2 my home, & doesn't know where I live. I call him 2 ask him what's goin' on & why hasn't he called me & his excuse is he's been out makin' it. I know what I should do, but I know what I won't do. Could I have some other inputs on this matter to help my final decison ressurect to come to a conclusion
2006-12-28 09:23:14 · 7 answers · asked by BitterSweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get the hell away from him I used to date guys like that I actually have a child by one, they weren't in gangs but they sold drugs and I look back on it and realize how stupid I was and how I deserved to have so much more, I don't know how old you are but every choice that you make affects you in some way so you should make better decisions on who you associate with friends/boyfriends whatever. You could find yourself in a lot of trouble being around people like that even if you are innocent
2006-12-28 09:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you are dating a whole lot of people. so for your sake I hope you are practising safe sex. In case of anyone who dates anybody who is gang affiliated, well, that can get you a lot more hurt then not knowing what his cell phone is. Date quality people so you will finally find the one for you, that will be there for you as a good and loving partner and would not use you as a human shield in a drive by shooting.
Good Luck
2006-12-28 17:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a psychologist. You have issues. You seem to be very accepting of men that don't respect you and have probably thrown away men that are attentive to you.
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If you want to be really happy on the path you are taking, get a boyfriend that is already in prison.
2006-12-28 17:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by g g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl move on from all of them. If he will not give his number, he is not serious with you, your his booty call. Really sounds like you have got a hand full of trouble that you should wash your hands of.
2006-12-28 17:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a gang member ??/ I think you found i winner -- you should have kids with him -- with people like that you do not want to let go - you are a very lucky woman
2006-12-28 17:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are losing out there. Get away.
2006-12-28 17:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time now to research abortion clinics.
2006-12-28 17:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by questionmarkguy2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋