my ex partner hurt my daughter and she had a few bruisers, but my daughter was taken from me and is with the social services, and i am fighting to get her back, i have asked to do the coureses that they ahve asked for but they wont give them to me why is my daughter still in care i dont do drugs and dont drink all i did was let my ex ex ex partner look after my child and i do regret this so how do i get her back
2006-12-28 09:20:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Get a good lawyer. I would also try to get some statements from family and friends about your parenting skills. You need to find some other way to get the course that they want you to take. The more you do to help your case, the better it will look to the court.
I am not sure what your situation is but you need to try and get your daughter with a family member until you can get this all settled.
I wish you the best of luck and hope it all works out for you.
2006-12-28 13:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by pierronmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a LAWYER. You can do NOTHING on your own. The way the court system works when it has the wrong information is HORRIBLE - you may never see her again if you DONT get a lawyer! Also, call the local TV stations and complain loud and clear as well - but only AFTER you get a lawyer to help you!
2006-12-28 17:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to prove to them that you responsible and would never intentionally put her in the same position again. At the moment they are seeing you as an accessory because they maybe thinking that you knew your ex was a prick but didn't do anything about it in time. You daughter paid the consequence of your ignorance, But you cant be blamed for ever for being ignorant, they will see that if you persevere.
2006-12-28 17:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by nitenurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in the relationship that can have a bearing on their decision. If you are no longer in the relationship, they should be looking at reunification. Keep asking and try to get to supervisor level. Especially if this is a first time thing.
2006-12-28 17:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the social worker that is dealing with this case and explain it to her/him. You should get help or advice from them. Good luck.
2006-12-28 17:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get legal advice, find out your rights, you should be able to get her back if you can prove your ex is completely, totally out of your life.
2006-12-28 17:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to court and explain everything
2006-12-28 17:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think from their standpoint though you put your daughter in harms way so you have a lot to prove to them...but if you really didnt hurt her i am sure you can get her back
2006-12-28 17:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to court but as you explained in your previous question you are pregnant it might be hard going for you...
2006-12-28 17:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a good lawyer . I wish you well .
2006-12-28 17:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋