I sorta want a boyfriend, but my mom wont let me. But if i did have one would it make me happy? I dont want to go behind my parents back though.
2006-12-28 09:19:00 · 16 answers · asked by Save the Whales. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like i am not aloud to date, but will i feel more accepted if I have on?
2006-12-28 09:29:31 · update #1
No.
Having a boyfriend or not having a boyfriend doesn't make someone happy. Happiness has to so with many factors and must come from within you.
I'm sure there are plenty of girls out there with boyfriends who are unhappy...
...and plenty of girls without boyfriends who are happy.
2006-12-28 09:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Katie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it won't make you happy just because you got a boyfriend. if you're not happy with your life right now, getting into any relationship is only asking for major trouble and pain down the road. Figure out what it is that you really are struggling with, why you are not happy with your life, and while you are at it -- try to stop being self-centered and focus on those around you. You'll be surprised how much joy helping others can bring you.
2006-12-28 09:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a rush! Having a bf is not all it's cracked up to be. They can be much more trouble than they're worth, trust me. Being in a relationship is hard work and when your still in High School it can be a nightmare. Think about all the drama you already deal with. Now multiply that by like a 100! It's crazy. Just be patient. Your day will come and when it does, take my advice, be very picky!!
2006-12-28 09:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by warriorchic84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't need a boyfriend to have fun. If you go out with your friends there must be a lot of guys there. You can talk to them and have a good time without worrying about your boyfriend finding out. Enjoy some freedom your time will come to have a boyfriend.
2006-12-28 09:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by imart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Boyfriends are completely optional. If anything, they distract you from the stuff that already makes you happy. When it comes to romantic relationships, there's too much effort and not enough worth.
2006-12-28 13:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, having a boyfriend is not going to make you happy. You will never be happy with anyone if you can't be happy on your own.
2006-12-28 09:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You need to be happy with yourself by yourself before you can have a good relationship. A relationship does not MAKE you happy in and of itself. A relationship adds to your life and enhances an already good one.
2006-12-28 09:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your age would have a lot to do with it of course. You actually do not need a boyfriend for life to be good. Sometimes dating can be a ton of trouble. Good luck!
2006-12-28 09:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No having a bf don't make you happy, can cause well more stress than its worth.
2006-12-28 09:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE. No girl needs a guy to be happy. You can be happy all by yourself if you have enough faith in yourself.
2006-12-28 09:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by HiLovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋