ok i have a man and well if u see my old q's we broke up we got back together ok thing r going so good he changed so much but i feel like sometimes i dont even want to be with him i know it sounds funny but i do love him and i dont know what to do should i still be with him or leave so i wont be hurting him and waisting time ?
2006-12-28 09:15:38 · 9 answers · asked by wantme4me1313 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him know how you feel, no point in wasting his time or your time by being in a relationship you no longer want to be in? Right, I mean ask yourself this: Could I see myself with this man for the rest of my life, and if not then you need to do some re-evaluating and make some changes in your life. If he's not included in that then so be it. You shouldn't be in a relationship to make someone else happy, if your not happy then you shouldn't be in that relationship. If he loves you he'll understand. He may be bitter for awhile but ask him, would he stay with you if he didn't love you or couldn't see being with you for the rest of his life. Probably not. So no need to create extra stress just sit down and talk to him, no it wont be easy but its for the best.
2006-12-28 09:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not feel the same about him then let him know so that both of you can get on with what you would like. he might be hurt but at least he will be ready to move on.
2006-12-28 09:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. It will do you both a lot good. Love or a marriage is a serious commitment and it doesn't sound that you are up to it at the moment.
2006-12-28 09:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of in the same situation. I think you should not give up so fast on your relationship, just ride it out for a little while and let things happen naturally and time will tell if you are meant for eachother.
2006-12-28 09:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i tell ya , if you want to get together fine, just dont lead the poor guy on either comit to him or leave him but b straight with him! set all your cards on the table and talk it out what you both want to do ! thats the best i do for you kiddo. take care hugs in bunches - richardstz19.
2006-12-28 09:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by richardstz19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with him tell him. Don't lead him on and let him think he has a chance. It will get harder for both of you if you do. You would want the same consideration if the shoe was on the other foot wouldnt you?
2006-12-28 09:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're not ready for a relationship. don't waste your time if you're not serious. I think its more like, you care for him but you don't love him.
2006-12-28 09:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Leeno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the only one who can answer that question.
2006-12-28 09:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes move on
2006-12-28 09:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋