Can I call me ex?

Question

My ex bf broke up w/ me 2 1/2 months ago. Stated still loved me but needed to get his life together and fix all the issues that we fought about (i.e. get a job, move out, make money etc.)

We have gone out twice since. The last time he told me that he sitll meant what he said when he told me that once he got everything together he wanted to be w/ me again. He also hugged me and kissed me on the head.

Two days later he called and msged me twice to wish me a merry x-mas. I called him on x-mas to wish him a happy holiday. He said we should get together and go out to a movie.

2 days later I called him and left a msg. That was yesterday. He hasnt returned the call yet. I still love him and want to be with him.

Can I call him again today? does that seem too desperate?

Answer 1

Give it another day or text him to say "just thinking about you - hi" - something like that.

Answer 2

Please do not call him again. It absolutely sounds desperate. You know that there are guys out there who already have their s h i t together? You don't need to be wasting any more breaths, tears and time over this guy. Remember: he's an ex for a reason. You want to go back because he's your comfort zone. Go out and meet new people or even look some up on the internet just to see what else is out there. Stop trying to "protect" yourself with him; you're just scared of what else is out there. Remember: a ship in a harbor is safe, but that's not what ships are built for.

Answer 3

Wow thats kinda mean inspite of the shown fact that...! be sure no thoughts are in contact and don't be egocentric and phone a woman up asserting you extremely like her and could want to take issues to the subsequent point, be sure this lady basically needs to f*ck too and he or she knows hi. Calling the ex sounds too messy - a random sounds extra helpful - lower back be sure she knows. i in my opinion could never try this - i'm not grimy and basically f*ck whoever on each and every occasion basically as a results of fact i'm sexy, I even have standards and could continuously have them and plus i'm not attempting to get an STDs no affense - and that i'm basically letting you recognize that this would ensue to you, so becareful ! sturdy luck

Answer 4

I know exactly how u feel im still in love w/ ma ex to and just started a new relationship. without resolving ma issues so i don't think it's desperate becuz he has told you he loves and has expressed it in so many wayz. so go ahead and call him it's just a phone call.

Answer 5

Depends what you want to call him. Don't call more than 2 times then wait for him. If he is still getting thinkgs back on track you dont want to make him feel smothered.

Answer 6

Wait till new years call and wish him a happy new year. Tell him anytime he wants to go to that movie he promised, he knows where to find you and leave it at that.

Answer 7

that seems very desperate...you need to get out and have some fun... I'm not saying get over you ex but enjoy the single life while you can....

Answer 8

it sounds like hes keeping you hanging on so your there when he needs you but not vice versa, i would maybe ring him once more and then if again theres no reply just try to move on! i no it sounds easy but believe me its not , if you keep letting him pick u up and then drop you again the only person thats going to get hurt is you. i hopr this helps . chin up.

Answer 9

DON'T CALL HIM!!! I repeat DO NOT CALL HIM!!! Men always want what they can't have so play a little hard to get! You WILL seem desperate!

Answer 10

Ya I think you should call him .It doesn't matter .
You have to do what your heart says .
So there is no problem to call him .
Don't lose him again .
Good luck .