im 33 and all my yonger family members are married and own houses and have great husbands and or boyfriends that are there
for them....i got married young that ended......ive been in three relationships in the last 12 yrs........and not one of them had or has any thing to offer a girl.....im not money hungry....but i would once like a man to cater to my needs for once......im tired of dead beat men with no future...... i wonder what its like to get something in return for once
2006-12-28 09:00:15 · 10 answers · asked by fonducs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe the problem is really you. Stop comparing your men to others. Before you can have a happy relationship, you are going to have to learn to accept the man in your life for who he is, not what he has to offer you. Any man would be better off without a woman who has your mindset. The men you have split up with are better off without you. You say you aren't money hungry, but you use the fact that all your other family members own houses as a comparison to how much better their spouses are. I think you are a little confused.
Also, how do you expect to establish any stability if you can't even figure out how to stay in a relationship? It doesn't sound like you even give it a chance to get land legs before you break it up. You are a selfish b i t c h and will never be happy until you change your attitude.
2006-12-28 09:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand how you feel. I know it's hard to accept, but you have to be patient. The right guy will come along when you least expect it. I'm still waiting on my Mr. Right. I'd rather wait and get the right man for me than just keep having relationships with dead beats. Patience is the key. And stop looking. He will find you.
2006-12-28 17:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it won't happen cause you are looking for it....love gets you when you least expect it.....you have to be happy with your life before anyone can see the wonderful beauty inside of you that is waiting for it's moment to shine and attract a significant other....... so go through life and try not to look for or expect anything and it shoud bite you in the butt....just be yourself.....
2006-12-28 17:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Punkd_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hanging out in better places - church, clubs for adults who volunteer, etc. Other than that, stop looking so hard. When you don't seem as desperate and are happy with your life, it all seems to fall into place.
Good luck!
2006-12-28 17:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find love when you're not looking! Worrying isn't going to make it happen any faster. Do things you enjoy and you may find someone there who enjoys the same thing!
2006-12-28 17:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kristy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me chick the men that have money are not all they are cracked up to be either. If you know of any let me know too :)
2006-12-28 17:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant tell wheather your a guy or a girl.
but relatioshipe anre't everything. just focus on your career, family and friends.
your soulmate will find you.
2006-12-28 17:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just be patient and maybe someone will come your way.
2006-12-28 17:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u worry too much
2006-12-28 17:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by DB9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk how solve your problem
2006-12-28 17:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋