How 2 talk to my crush.....suggestions ?
We like each other and like we email and IM , but when we talk on the phone we can`t talk about anything. And when i wanna talk in person he`s too nervous.
2006-12-28 08:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Candi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is common. We are all going through this. You need to get the courage to talk to him. If you can't talk to him on the phone, then how are you suppose to talk in person?
If he doesn't make the move, you have to take the initiative and stop waiting around for something to happen. Honey, you have to do something.
If you want something, you have to make it happen. And he'll come 'round.
If not, then he's probably not interested. But at least, you'll be in the comfort of knowing that you tried. There will be no "What If" questions for you.
I called a guy last night because we parted ways but I couldn't end it there because I didn't know where I stood. I finally gathered the courage to call him up and got a few things off my chest. Not all my questions were answered, but I received some peace of mind.
Remember, in the end, everything is okay. But if it's not okay, it's not the end.
Best of luck!
~ Callie and mmmfilipino
2006-12-28 09:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Callista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say yet basically because a lady starts up a communication with you does not recommend she needs as a lot as now you. If the lady is continually talking to you or asking you questions and what not, then enable her make the first bypass, extremely then getting your thoughts damage and being embarrassed, play difficult to get somewhat!
2016-12-01 06:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is understandable; you are both young, and awkward. The best thing to do is find a subject you both like to talk about. Remember, people talk about what is important to them, so if you find out what he is interested in, and bring up the subject, it might cause him to open up, and talk.
2006-12-28 09:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make the first move. phone him or talk to him the first chance u see him. good luck, happy holidays and have a happy new year.
2006-12-28 09:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just be urself. Bring up stuff like movies or a teacher u share...that works 4 me!
2006-12-28 09:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Cole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to him and ask him for the reason why he get's nervous when you want to talk to him in person. and also look at him right in the eye and ask him kindly to please stop being so nervous, i'm sure he'll understand i can feel it.
2006-12-28 09:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say things first and maybe he will feel more open to just talking
2006-12-28 09:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by jb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to relax
2006-12-28 09:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by cat-o-doom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋