How can you tell if someone is a virgin?

Question

WITHOUT GOUING TO THe DOCTOR

Answer 1

You can't unless you ask that person. Sometimes you will be surprised who is or who is not a virgin. So instead of making judgments, go to the person directly and just ask.

Answer 2

There is no way to tell by looking at them or something ridiculous if that's what you mean. A person is a virgin if they have not had sex. And sex can mean different things to different people, but to most people, a virgin is someone that has not had sexual intercourse. Sometimes, even a doctor would not be able to tell because the hymen (the membrane that is often broken when a woman first has sex) can be broken WITHOUT having sex from things like exercise, horseback riding, etc.

You can always ask someone, but you have to assume they're telling you the truth, but there is NO way to just "tell".

Answer 3

There is no way to tell for sure. You can ask the person "Are you a virgin?" and then believe their answer or not. But this is really none of your business unless you getting ready to have sex with them (with their consent, of course!!).

Even a doctor can't tell for sure - there is no way to tell if a man is a virgin, and a woman's hymen may be been torn or broken by other non-sexual activities (such as gymnastics, horseback-riding, a fall, etc). Even women who have had lots of sex may have their hymen still partially intact - rare but true.

Answer 4

You cant. Hymen can easily be broken by many other things. Doing the splits, bike riding, gymnastics can all break the hymen. Some girls arent even born with hymen at all.... It is what it is. Doctors would only be able to tell you if the hymen was still in tact and not broken. But even then, thats not a sure fire way to tell if someone is not a virgin.

Answer 5

Why is this so important to you , are you a virgin?
And why would you want to know anyway , are you gonna leave her if she is not ? It's the way she makes you feel when you are together , when you hold hands , when you kiss her , and if you feel any of these things being near her , why would you want to stain it by asking this question , if she considers this relevant to the relationship , then she'll tell you herself!

Answer 6

The Dr can't even always tell. A girl can get her hymen broke by a fall, or horseback riding, or even masturbation. There is no way to tell if a guy is a virgin or not.

Just ask them and then you just have to trust them.

Answer 7

If you're not a virgin, maybe ask them intimate questions to probe how much they know about sex... that's probably the only way to test without going to the doctor. But if you're considering having sex with someone who would lie to you about their viriginity, that sounds pretty stupid anyways.

LOL to CJ...

Answer 8

Umm... The only way I know is to ask the person. Just say something along the lines of, "No offence, but are you a virgin?" If they take offence, back off.

Answer 9

you can't technically be sure because tampons can break the hymen... but if you have sex with them and they seem to know what they are doing quite well then they are not a virgin. if they were, they would fumble a lot and wait for you to do all the work and tell them what to do. not that i would know...

Answer 10

Usually when girls are virgins sometimes the 1st time they have sex they will bleed. And its sometimes painful when its a girls 1st time. And they will usually be tighter than someone who has had sex alot. As for guys I'm not sure if there are any for sure signs except they usually miss alot and finish quickly. LOL!!