i have a friend we've been known together for almost 7 years now. she is my best friend every time im feeling down she always there and listen to me. i really like this girl but im affraid that she just want me as a friend only. everytime we see each other we both enjoy and we we're like more than friends but i never think to take advantage to her coz i respect her and she is so nice person. and she never ask me anything either if i have a feeling to her. i need help please.
2006-12-28 08:56:14 · 12 answers · asked by luvu4ever14344 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have got to tell her. One way or the other. If you can't verbalize it, try expressing it physically. Try giving her a massage -girls love massages. If you give her a hug, caress her hair and "absentmindedly" give a light kiss around the ear area. Flirt with her and touch her arm. Invade her personal space without being lewd. If she is as good a friend you say she, she'll reciprocate. Or she could still not getting what you are doing and then you just need to say, "You mean the world to me, lets give us a try, it'll be worth it."
2006-12-28 09:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by allisoneast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to take a chance.You know her she knows you for the person you are and it sounds like you both enjoy each others company. You just need to be honest and open and just tell her that over the years you have known her that she is a great friend but you want to be more than just friends.
2006-12-28 09:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do something really sweet and romantic. telling someone u like them is never gonna B easy, and there's always a risk. but if you like her a lot u will put ur heart on the line and show her how u feel. There's always a chance she won't feel the same way, but u r gonna haf 2 B willing 2 take that risk.
2006-12-28 08:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by jesusfreak_200513 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be for you tell the truth about how you feel,you might find out she feels the same as you do.Hopefully she will not be offended and you still remain friends Now you will know that your free to find that special lady your looking to spend your life with. Hope this helps you find the way and all works out.
2006-12-28 09:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Diana N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before you act,, ask yourself - why now after 7 yrs?
are you sincere in your desire to move from friendship to a romantic relationship? or are you lonely and needing some affection and/or attn?
does she wow you in the ways past g/f's have or will your eye waunder cuz she's not the one for you?
once you cross this line,, going back is really hard. specially if you start it and end it. don't do it until you're sure of your motives. g/f's come and go, but sincere standby you friends are hard to come by.
2006-12-28 09:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by bb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is probably going to sound stupid to everyone but here we go...I don't know how old you are, but one thing i know will work for sure is... both of you get a little drunk and then tell her, because people's true feelings come out when they're drunk, then hopefully she gives you an answer. if you guys are not old enough to drink then i would suggest you make a move on her while you guys are doing some kind of physical activity or go to a park.
2006-12-28 09:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Leeno 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe show your feelings by calling more often...every weekend, ask her out...or try to hang out with her as often as you could...
after that, when you guys are talking, just the two of you...show your interest in her personal life; such as: boyfriends, breakups, make ups, single or not etc etc...if she is single then ask her to catch a movie together. make sure the invitation is for her only...if she asks if she could bring a friend...then tell her this is a date....^^
she'll get it :) winks winks
2006-12-28 09:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by deliah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
7 years period is enough..to understand a good,close friend..so,even if she is not asking..u can clear to her @ Ur intention to feel hr..more than friend..AT the most ..she will not allow u to go further at this stage..No matter,ask her to help u..then..to find for u,a similar to her,as per Ur desire!!Ur solution will be..very near to U..then..!![But..please select a very special ,almost lonely..place..with best of her mood,in a some romantic-mood..& with frank,true..loving heart..ok!]
Best of Luck..!!
2006-12-28 09:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by prem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been friends for 7 years what are you so worried about? Just ask her out and quit whining about it... your not going to get anywhere asking questions.
2006-12-28 08:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Alex T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u should have one of ur other friends ask her if she likes u and if she says yes then go for it!
2006-12-28 08:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋