Ok so there is this dance and I asked this guy but he said no to me and I was wondering what should I do to make this guy wish that he had said yes to me... The reason I am so bitter is because I have a really big crush on him and I asked him out on IM and he said no and I was really hurt and I want him to realize that the school non clothing dresser is not the girl that he should have gone with... Should I become that person at the dance... What should I do I am in very big need of an answer by Jan 6th (The day I get the dress).
Thanks
Me
2006-12-28 08:53:41 · 14 answers · asked by Freshman15 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are up against a girl that dresses suggestively to get attention. You best bet is too dress even more suggestive so that he wishes he was with you instead of her. Make sure you get close all night so he can see what he is missing. It will drive him nuts if you have the assets to back it up.
2006-12-28 09:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by ICARRYABIGSTICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about putting all this energy into something constructive? If he did not want to go out with you in the first place, there is nothing you can do to make him jealous. People get jealous only if they liked the person in the first place. If he does not care to have a stake in you, then there is nothing in the world short of having Ed McMahon hand you a fat check at the school that you can do to make the guy feel this way. What you can do instead, is to concentrate on having fun with your date and with your friends. You don't want your memories of the dance being spoiled with spending the time looking over your shoulder watching him have fun with his date.
Oh and if you really want him to like you, your attitude is so not the way to do it.
2006-12-28 08:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by joycedomingo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him altogether. Be yourself. Don't go out of your way to make him jealous because he may not notice anyway. Or even worse, he does notice and thinks you're just being desperate. I know it sucks to have a crush on someone and they don't return the feelings. But you can't force someone to like you. They'll either take advantage of you or be completely turned off. Just be yourself and I'm certain that there's some one else waiting in the wings for you to forget that other guy so he can come sweep you off your feet. Good luck!
2006-12-28 08:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by Koko Loco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh...sounds lik summat that would happen to me!firstly the guys a jerk for not saying yes to you ya sound class honey!!secondly im not sure hes worth losing any sleep over!just get out there get all dolled up lil black dress usually does the trick!!Have FUN with your girlies and dont give him a thought the rest of the night!!he'll soon realise what he's missing and come squirming back then you can make him pay later when you have him under the thumb!!!enjoy your dance xxxxxxxxxxx
2006-12-28 09:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by lil Miss Irish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only make him jealous if he has feelings for you. If you look drop dead gorgeous at the dance he may regret having said no, but that is not the same as jealousy. If he does have feelings for you, he will be jealous of other guys who are attentive to you so it may be more about who you go with. (Someone he already sees as a rival would be perfect.)
2006-12-28 09:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to make a guy jealous is the LAST way to get him. Thinking that you can get a guy by making him jealous is just one of the illusions of high school drama. Don't be immature and pull crap like that. There are tons of nice guys out there that will give you attention just because they like you. You don't need to waste you time on one who doesn't like you. Trust me!
2006-12-28 11:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just gotta be too smart and you should know you your guy very well. Do the things that he wanna do with you with some boddy else or say the sings that he says to you to someboddy else in front of his face and you will see how he will get jelous.
But , in my opnion, love doens't need a gug to be jelious about.
Love is about trust, faith and hope and to be "jelous" is the best way the kill him.
Think about that than i hope that that you will make the right choice.
2006-12-28 09:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by Be easy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't try to make him jealous.
I thought a boy was really nice, and I asked him out, and he turned me down, so I dated his best friend to try to make him jealous. Both of them were equally cute, but I found that they were giant Jerks.
If a boy turns you down you shouldn't be chasing after him. He's probably going to cheat on you, anyway. You should go after a boy that you know is sweet and true to love.
I hope this helps you!
Happy Holidays!
- Kyuubi_Sama.
2006-12-28 08:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to make a guy jealous. It's very petty and childish and makes you look VERY bad.
How about a little self pride? It's what becoming a woman is about... don't do it.
2006-12-28 08:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by ??? LadyBoyd ??? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buy a really hot and sexy dress and get another guy. Dont look at the other guy at all and act like he doesnt exist even if you're crazy about him. even if this doesnt work to make him jealous dont waste your time on him because it was his loss and its too late now. am i right?
2006-12-28 08:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋