2006-12-28 08:38:17 · 29 answers · asked by Footballchick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know friendship for some leads to the most rewarding and long lasting relationships ever known.I was best friends with my husband for a couple of years before we actually got together.
Anyhow what I'm saying is when your friends with some one at least you know them better then you would just some one you started dating.Just tell him how you feel and see how he feels about you.
It's either going to make or break just like any other relationship.Some friendships are ruined by mixing friendship and dating,keep that in mind.Good luck.
2006-12-28 08:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best option is to just tell him or ask him out or something. The downside to this is that it could make things awkward between you and ruin your friendship.
The real question is: Do you like him because of him, or do you like him because he's there?
If you really like him for him, approach him. Guys like it when girls ask them out or tell them they're interested. (Plus, most of the time they're clueless, unless they are really conceited) I would not advise a note or going through a friend, the direct approach usually works out better, or over the phone if that's easier for you.
My suggestion is tell him you've developed feelings for him and you'd like to go out on a date to see if things could go anywhere or if you should just stay friends. This will help to take the pressure off of him.
2006-12-28 08:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy Lehua 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay. you've come to the right place then!
1.) Most boys don't like girly-girls.
2.) Be nice to him.
3.) Wear make-up, but don't be TOO overdone.
4.) Talk to him a little, but don't laugh too much and don't act all weird. Just chill. you know?
5.) Be yourself!
Or you can tell him that you like him and hopes that he likes you back. If he doesn't like you, things could go wrong, so don't even bother to tell him then!
2006-12-28 09:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by xchia101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have not been able to SUCCESSFULLY turn a friendship into a relationship without losing the friendship. So, just realize that if you do decide to try to start a relationship with this guy that you will probably not be able to be friends again when/if the realationship is over. Good luck!!
2006-12-28 08:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lissy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had this happen to me once or twice before..he was one of my friends...and we prob. went a year or so being just friends..but i knew i liked him prob. 6 months into the friendship...but the way we ended up finding out we liked each other..was when we were watching a movie at his house and everyone had gone upstairs to get something to drink...i got up and was ready to go upstairs to..and he pulled me back on the couch and kissed me....if he has feelings for you..it might just be a matter of time when you two have time alone...or maybe you'll have to let him know (cuz guys can sumtimes be clueless) and see what happens
2006-12-28 08:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by luvablegigglez1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm gonna let you in on a well known guy secret. We can't be friends with girls. We only talk to girls we like. It's true trust me. Now every little teenie bopper boy out there is gonna say that this isn't true. Ask an older guy. Guys only hang out with girls they like. Or at least girls that they're thinking about.
2006-12-28 08:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Guylemieux 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Young lady, I don't know when you got mixed up - but you are supposed to like your friends, that's what friendship is all about. Now, if you want to take it a step further, ask him to come to a film or show with you - no problem. Good luck.....
2006-12-28 08:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends can go out, jsut be aware of the consequences it might have if you do.
First off you should tell him that you like him, and see his reaction. Then if you two began to go out, then you should make sure that before you go out you should ask him if you will be friends still if something goes wrong, and if he says yes, then go out with him.
2006-12-28 08:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well girl, go for it take a chance and tell him how you feel.. I mean there is a 50/50 chance that he could feel the same way about you.
2006-12-28 08:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try 2 flirt with him if that won't work or ur 2 shy 2 do it then stick a lovenote in his locker if u don't wanna do it or ur 2 shy then... Tell him that u like him and hopes he likes u back.
2006-12-28 08:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Valerie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋