♥How can i stop loving someone who doesn't even think about me♥?

Question

im still in love with my ex. we have been off and on for almost 2years and im starting to figure out that its probably not meant to be! We got back together in november and broke-up 13days later. (im in college) everytime we see each other he says he loves me and always kisses me♥ i love him alot and i keep on thinking about him. what should i do to stop loving him♥


i think he still likes me cause everytime i talk to a boy he always comes up and says "can i take her out of your presence" he has major jelousy problems when it comes to me♥

Answer 1

You can't wake up one day and say u don't love him anymore, because you would be lying to yourself. I was in the same situation with my first boyfriend, and when u love someone that much.. you tend to be blind over the obvious, which the obvious could be a lot of thing like: maybe he's stringing you along cause he knows u truly love him and will always come back when he say come back, or whatever other reasons. I suggest you to keep yourself busy with your favorite hobbies, meet new people, hang out with your friends, and start loving yourself as much as you love/loved that dude (you should love yourself more than him.. you must put urself 1st). And his jealousy is a minor sign of a dominant and controlling man, and it could also lead to abuse, so it might be cute to u when he does that, but be careful...
And personally, I don't think its healthy for you to go back and forth with a person soo many times like u and your ex doing, when you go back and forth soo much like that.. that's a sign of confusion, meaning y'all don't really know what you want, but u tend to come back to each other cause that's what you are use to, and that's what you know best, and that's not healthy for you...

Good Luck (it won't be hard) with your issue.. I wish u the best of luck, and hopefully the outcome of this comes out in your favor!

Answer 2

how do u make those hearts in ur writing? please tell me!!
and also...u two aren't dating but he keeps coming up to u and saying that he loves u? does he have other girls that he is doing that to at the same time? does he have a full time girlfriend and u r just for fun? i think he probably doesn't know how to treat a women...what i suggest is trying to find another guy to whom u r attracted to and try talking to him when ur on and off ex isn't around so he doesn't take u aways...obviously he DOES have very bad jealousy problems and that isn't a good thing either -- that is a sign of an abuser...i think it is good that he isn't ur full time boyfriend because with that behavior with u to which u rn't even his real girlfriend shows that if u were, he would probably not even let u leave the house to see ur friends.
i say try to find someone else.
good luck
xao:D(L)

Answer 3

I wasn`t able to get over one of my exboyfriends until I found someone else who was completely amazing. In the end, I didn`t even end up staying with that amazing person, but they at least got me over someone I thought I could never get over. Or at least, he made it hurt a little less to not be with that old boyfriend.
It`s not as simple as finding someone else. It has to be someone amazing who you have an even stronger connection with.

Answer 4

Maybe you and you ex need to sit down and discuss your relationship. It seems like y'all want to be together but both of y'all are playing games.

If you really want to give over him then you need to stop communicating with him.

Answer 5

I'm pretty sure he still thinks about you, and sadly, there is no real way to stop loving someone. Try talking it out, and maybe you can repair your relationship...

Answer 6

can you stop with the hearts??!!!

Answer 7

move on........