A month ago, I met a guy who lives in my dorm. He's a senior in undergrad and I am a graduate student. We chat over IM often. One day, he randomly asks me to borrow a calculator. I thought that was odd, especially since I am sure I am not the only one he could have borrowed a calculator from. But whatever. Yesterday, he comes to get it and asks to see my room. I told him no. We chatted a little while longer and then I walked him to the elevator. He tries to put his arm around me but I kind of pulled away. Reflex, I guess. Later, we're chatting over IM and I asked him when he was coming to visit me again. He said he didn't feel welcome because I didn't invite him to see my room. Is this guy serious? Then he asked me what I want from him and I told him friendship. But now I'm wondering, what is HE looking for? He says he would prefer to know about me and then when he's satisfied, he'll tell me everything I want to know about him. Does this make ANY sense?
2006-12-28 07:46:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's probably something physical that he wants from you.Just a gut feeling.He was testing you at first but he knows all you want is just friendship.See if he keeps interest in you.
2006-12-28 07:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Grubster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't make any sense at all. I can't see a constant pattern in that guys approach which can lead to some conclusion. Actually, he confused me. Being a guy myself, i would recommend you to keep distance from him unless off course if you want it otherwise. good luck.
2006-12-28 08:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by rony d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't feel comfortable having guys in your room. you're sorry if you offended him. It sounds like a weird thing to get offended over to me. be careful, there's an outside chance that he's a weirdo.
2006-12-28 08:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for a relationship, be it sexual or more serious, and you have caught his eye.
2006-12-28 07:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's wasting his time w/ you.................
He's probably already ballz-deep in some other tramp by now!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-12-28 07:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋