I think she is acting immaturely. There is definitely a line that can't be crossed w/in a relationship, some things that just can't be said but rather must be "uncovered" or realized byt the other person. But she is playing games. I sense her feelings for me are real (and strong, so WTF!), but she won't let them develop. And I am getting pissed off. So, again, how can I tell her? Can I tell her anything? I have been kind and patient so far and I don't want to burn the bridge. But I just don't get it: we tried, it was going well, so she had to end it? So weird! I already know she has been hurt in the past (which is why I have been passive so far) but now it's like she wants to keep hurting herself by denying this.
2006-12-28 07:45:31 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not crazy, she just has to love herself before she can let you love her. Give her the space and time she needs. If she knows you care about her, all you can do is let her learn to trust those feelings. If you push too hard you'll lose her and that wouldn't benefit either of you.
2006-12-28 07:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋