i broke up with him because we havnt tlaked or saw eachother in atleast a week and everytime i tlak to him after not talking for awhile it seems that he dont care so i finally kicked him to the curb so why do i feel so guilty..im having bad thoughts and thinking i mad the rong choice how can i cheer up? and please dont say go hang out with friends or sumthn cause well there sorta mad at me for sum reason and the 4 friends that arnt mad at me are outa town....
2006-12-28 07:42:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh don't worry chick#! You did the best thing, you dumped him because you didn't want him anymore, what's the point of being with someone who doesn't even listen or care about what you say. Don't feal bad, you were the one seeing him, not your friends. Watch a dvd, eat some chocolates!
2006-12-28 07:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well with anything it takes time to get over and sometimes that means feeling mad, sad or hurt. When the time comes you can move on. Just think of his reaction when you broke it off, that should give you some sort of idea if it was the right thing to do. You should have talked to him about your feelings cause it might have been something on his mind and not just cause he was into you. I wouldnt worry too much, especially if it wasnt a very serious relationship. Go find someone who is totally into you the way it should be.
2006-12-28 07:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by hot mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i think you were in the wrong for that,, so you haven't talked to him in a week,, think of the wife's and girlfriends that there loved ones are in the military and they don't get to talk to them for weeks, some times a whole month at a time, and when they do it might be for 10 or 15 min and that's all,,, and at the whole time they are talking to them, there thinking of other things, like an upcoming mission, or there Friend in the hospital.
you need to grow up and stop being so childish
2006-12-28 07:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by redneckmp28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every break up is hard so don’t feel guilty. By the sounds of it the relationship wasn’t working out to well. Communication is key to any relationship and this important aspect wasn’t there.
Cut your losses and move on.
2006-12-28 09:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your initial decision maybe the right one and I would chill out and not rush into changing things. If your ex BF was a seriois candidate he will make the first move.
Good Luck
2006-12-28 08:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by James Mack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the boy tell him how you feel try and work things out but not suddenly let him calm down cause he's probably mad then you should talk to him about how you feel if he still loves likes or whatever you then he'll come back wait for him to talk to you
2006-12-28 07:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by dork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find yourself a lil friend and sit on him till ya happy again then when ya done kick him t the curb b4 ya get too attatched
2006-12-28 09:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by lilman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, go and do things that you like to do. join a gym or some type of activities. things that would improve yourself and keep your mind busy. you'll feel much better. it could be as simple as getting a haircut to feel new and refresh.
2006-12-28 07:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, dont call him or try to talk to him first, wait for him to come crawling back after say at least a month
2006-12-28 08:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by little asian gal in cresent city 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look forward to going back to school and catching up with all your mates.
2006-12-28 07:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋