For example, a man and his woman are at the DMV to take care of HIS business and he leaves and makes his woman do all of the waiting for him. Another example is the man has no job and he makes his woman fill out applications online for him. That one isn't so harsh but you should get where I'm coming from by now. Is this right or wrong? Shouldn't the man do for himself, if you know what I mean?
2006-12-28 07:29:23 · 35 answers · asked by E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hell no it is not right
2006-12-28 07:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by patricia r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called the boy needs to grow up and be a man.
A man takes care of his own business.
A man makes sure those that depend on him are cared for.
Of course, the same things applies to a woman.
If one or the other isn't getting it done it's time to have a talk and if that doesn't work, there's always the curb.
2006-12-28 07:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is the man 'making his woman' do anything?! Don't we as women still have a voice and the right to say 'no'? If the woman allows the man to take advantage of her, then I would assume he'll continue to do so.
2006-12-28 07:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not right for any man to make his woman do his dirty work no matter what kind of work it is. If he wants it done he needs to do it himself and not have his woman waiting on him. It's wrong. I don't let my husband do that to me.
2006-12-28 07:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the woman continues to let him walk all over her like that, it'll never stop. Why in the world would a woman ever let that get started! He's not supposed to be her child, he's supposed to be her MAN!
2006-12-28 07:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by UNI Panther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all a man can't MAKE you do nothing you don't want to do. You better get it together and get a back bone. If you don't want to do something tell him. You're only allowing him to be lazy. A real man wouldn't let you do any of his dirty work.
2006-12-28 07:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Miyla82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a lazy and dependent person, but you need to understand that if you do do it for him, at least you know it's done. if procrastinating is not an attractive quality to you, you won't be very happy now will you.
Try a real man that takes pride in himself and his accomplishments, not one that expects you to live his life for him
2006-12-28 07:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, right in the middle of a public place when you are doing these things for this guy just leave him there by himself with that oh pooh look on his face let him figure it out on his own.
2006-12-28 07:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by jason m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your very right.He should do it for himself.Unless u offer to.You need to ask him why he can't do it?Or better yet just tell him that he has 2 hands so he can type out his own applicatioins.I'm not here to tell u that he is using u but from what I see he is at least taking advantage of your good nature.Good luck
2006-12-28 07:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the saying, "if you insist, I won't resist"? lol, if a woman enjoys doing what you call, his "dirty work" then so be it! Being happy is what matters, if you're not happy with what's going on in your relationship than change it, or leave.
2006-12-28 07:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must be lazy. Still no excuse. It is the mans job to do this stuff. He should be filling out apps for you. How is he going to learn if you do everything for him?
2006-12-28 07:32:54 · answer #11 · answered by detfan12_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋