When my boyfriend is around I freeze up like I cant talk or any thing .....like I cant even eat when he is around??? can any 1 gimme sum advice on how to handle this
2006-12-28 07:21:51 · 12 answers · asked by Katy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's so cute!! This is probably a new relationship. It will take time, you just need to relax and get comfortable. Don't worry about him judging you, because if he is really into you, the petty things wouldn't matter.
2006-12-28 07:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bison0809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did this start? He obviously didn't become your boyfriend because he saw you freezing up and hiding in the corner like a pickpocket with a fat wallet. You need to go back to how you were when you first met and loosen up..
2006-12-28 15:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you don't feel like you can be yourself around him because of insecurity or you are very shy? I don't understand how you two are a couple if you are not comfortable around him. You should have already had that chemistry before you got together. You might not be right for each other.
2006-12-28 15:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think less of him, lol. I know that sounds crazy but I think you've put him on a petistule in your mind causing you to feel so extremely nervouse around him. He just a person, remember that.
2006-12-28 15:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not right for you. If you don't feel comfortable around him then he probably shouldn't be your boyfriend. Or maybe you could tell him this and see if you can work it out.
Good Luck!
2006-12-28 15:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by amddma123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like this, no worries you will eventually become more comfortable around him. Just remember to be yourself, relax, calm down and you will do fine!
2006-12-28 15:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by JordanDDunn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you still have a crush on him and don't realize hes urs. Just be flirty and touchy.
2006-12-28 15:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by hottierecy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not good for you...
you need someone who makes you feel accepted for the real you........make you feel loved for the real you..make you feel valuable as a person when with them... do you feel desired?.... and if you have all those the last will happen...touch and be touched...
2006-12-28 15:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to relax and try not to picture him as your bf and as someone elese until you feel confortable being with him
2006-12-28 15:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by cat-o-doom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what has he done to maybe make you feel this way------or are you waitng for him to give you permission to talk, eat, and drink.
2006-12-28 15:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋