im a straight male who talks to a lot of girls. I dont think im ugly, people tell me im really cute all the time but yet i cant seem to get a girlfriend. My friend makes fun of me because they all want to be my friend and not date me. Girls (and guys with experience) wats up!!???
2006-12-28 07:20:36 · 7 answers · asked by razorsharpdut 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
using me 4 wat??
2006-12-28 07:23:35 · update #1
ok ya im very nice to girls so how do i act like a boyfriend?? i guess im not a gud flirter
2006-12-28 07:34:13 · update #2
You're probably being too "nice". Sounds wrong, I know, but girls just don't get attracted to guys who are overly nice to them. They will just put you up on the "friend" shelf....and once you're there it's hard to get down LOL.
Make sure you don't come across as desperate either. That is to a woman like garlic is to a vampire.
2006-12-28 07:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda sorta in the same situation as you, only I don't really want a girlfriend right now cuz I like being single. The thing with these women is that they see you with all these girls and they might like you or whatever but they figure that your just a player and not just a friend. The thing you have to decide is why you go out with them and why your their friend? Do you want something to happen between you and your friend? You should talk to them seriously if you like any of them and let them know that you dont have a girlfriend and that your just friends. Good Luck!!
2006-12-28 07:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by big.daddy83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably fall into the friend role by acting like a friend..
stop acting like a friend and act like a boyfriend..and you'll probably see a world of difference.
once you are the friend to a gilr you'll probably always be the friend.. so if you are interested in a girl tell her right away..and dont' try to be her friend first..
good luck to ya.
2006-12-28 07:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, you might be being 'too nice'. Try and be affectionate around girls and flirt a lot. Also give them some hints
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2006-12-28 07:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by brillohead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the girls arent going to ask you out you ask them out trust me i know
2006-12-28 07:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by bri_bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh* yeah, theyre using you.
2006-12-28 07:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you come across as being calm, friendly, and someone they can call or just chill with. don't take it personal...you will find someone.
2006-12-28 07:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋