For some security reason, people usually keeps on searching a mate even they are still in a relationship ..For example, some people can have a close mate, while they maintain the equilibrium with some other mates, just in case, they want to make a choice or as a backup in case their relationship no more workout ...
isn't on one side a healthy thing to be like that ..? I think it keeps us less emotionally dependent to our current mate and keeps the relationship balanced, because, when your mate saw that u have a lot girls that want you 2.., she will do whatever possible to keep you with her ..
2006-12-28 07:13:31 · 11 answers · asked by Roy A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i have a gf and i go out on her alot
2006-12-28 07:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're happy with your mate, why would you look for another one? don't you think it's kind of unfair to your mate if you're always keeping other options open? why are you even with them if you could just as easily be with someone else? i agree, it makes you less dependent on her, but part of being in a relationship is depending on each other. if you're not ready for that, maybe a steady relationship is not something you should be in right now. you can't have real trust in a relationship if you operate on jealousy to keep you together.
2006-12-28 15:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by its_namz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm trying to date someone and they have lots of other women they are keeping company with then he is the fish I will throw back in the water. Having lots of girls around you doesn't make you more desirable to me, its makes me think your not worth my time. And if your keeping some on the side while trying to cultivate a relationship with someone, your not giving your all to this relationship and it is destined to fail. I mean are you that scared of being alone that you constantly need to have someone to fall back on ??
2006-12-28 15:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are with someone and continue looking fot a mate, then something is wrong with the relationship you have. I suggest you stay alone and look until you find someone that makes you not want to look anymore.
2006-12-28 15:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why I tell my friends its important not to settle. STick it out for what you REALLY want in a mate. Cause when you settle for what you have versus what you want, the search continues...
2006-12-28 15:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because if you were in the right relationship you wouldn't feel the need to look or feel that you needed confirmation that you were wanted by others.
2006-12-28 15:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by vonhartleben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey pal, always keep a backup. Dont computers do it?
2006-12-28 15:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't no about that, I don't no anyone in a relationship that keeps looking, Only players and there not in real relationships....
2006-12-28 15:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I bet your girl is going this to you, isn't she? She's making you want to do "whatever possible" so she keeps you.
2006-12-28 15:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by PlasticTrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-28 15:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by TAHOE GUY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋