There is a guy that always looks at me. I can't really tell if he is interested in me or not. Whenever I catch him looking, he looks away. He has never spoken. I think he is kind of cute. I have no problem talking to other people but if its someone I might have interest in I have no idea what to say. What do I do?
2006-12-28 07:08:35 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, this should help :)
Decide what exactly is bothering you, and why. Do you become shy in front of audiences, or when you meet new people? What about it makes you shy?
Practice standing tall, and speaking in a loud, clear voice. Standing tall gives the world the impression that you are a strong person and feel good about your abilities.
Find situations where you know you feel comfortable. Surround yourself with friends or others who bring out the best in you, and build up your confidence through them. Eventually, this will translate to other, more uncomfortable situations.
Be yourself. If you are constantly trying to hold your true personality in, it can be difficult to feel comfortable around other people.
Face the fear that is bothering you. Smiling is a good way to start, and shouldn't be too embarassing. A small smile in the direction of a stranger may just brighten your day, and will brighten theirs, too! When you're prepared, you can try speaking to new people, using a light, friendly attitude. Be yourself!
2006-12-28 07:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Boss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has interest in you. That may be why he has not spoken. He may not know what to say to you either. Just be yourself and smile at him and say hi. Believe me, if he is interested in you he won't care what you say. He will just be glad that the two of you have started talking. Once he feels more comfortable around you, he will start talking more. Good luck.
2006-12-29 11:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Blue-Eyed Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just strike up a conversation on what ever is going on in the room where you have contact with him. for instance if you see him at a club start by saying something about the atmosphere around you. the guy i am about to marry i met on line 8 months ago. and our first conversation was about what a beautiful day it was. take a chance it may be the best thing that ever happened to you
2006-12-28 15:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by dotlulu98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gather all your courage and look at him back...or just say hello! if he smiles and says hi back then great or maybe follow him to the breakroom and pretend you are making coffe and say something random like
Boy do I need caffeine today
or
The coffee is a little strong today ...
that should get him talking
2006-12-28 15:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by red_klinik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy too. But I'm working around it. I know it can be frustrating telling someone you like them and the words just don't come out right. Try actin like he a mirror and your practicing in front of it. Even if what you say sucks. Give yourself credit you said it.
2006-12-28 15:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by Summer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problom. And I really dont know how to deal wit it eaither. I hope you find a great solution! Good Luck! Sry I couldnt help out!
2006-12-28 15:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be direct. What's the worst that can happen. He says he's not interested? Well, ok, now you know, move on. It's really just that simple. Really!
Neurotically Yours,
NightSpawn
2006-12-28 15:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by the_nightspawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's into you and he's shy. Go talk to him, and don't stop until he has a reason to talk to you again. If he doesn't ask you out soon, you might have to ask him--remember, he is shy too.
2006-12-28 15:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don`t want to get the wrong idea,
no offense but he may not like you.
you wanna be sure, so i say ask him or one of his closest friends.[=
just be like, "heyy, do you know who _ _ _ _ _ likes?"
hehehe. best of luck sweetheart. <3
2006-12-28 15:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋