This guy and I was sleeping together for a while and he showed emotions towards me and I didn't because I was in a relationship. Should I have told him of my feelings or should I call him up and tell him now of my feelings? It's been over a year since we've seen eachother but he called me the other day and the feelings came back so what should I do? I'm still with my boyfriend!!!
2006-12-28 07:03:43 · 22 answers · asked by InTelligence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, you don't really have a boyfriend. You have a friend who is a guy because you have already cheated on him once and you are thinking about doing it again. If you want to be with this guy (and apparently you do or else you wouldn't be banging him on the side) then do it and stop leading the poor shmuck you are with now down the trail of tears, ok?
2006-12-28 07:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a start, you don't really have a boyfriend. You have a guy that's a friend but not an actual boyfriend. I'm not an expert but I'd say you should tell the guy your in love with (other than your "boyfriend") that you have a boyfriend but you still love him. Then the next day I'd go up to your so called boyfriend and tell him what you did. If, even though a %2 chance, your "boyfriend" is angry, then tell the other guy what happened and probably that you don't really want to be with your boyfriend anymore. Then before you dump your boyfriend if your going to tell him what this relationship has meant to you and that he'd always have a special place in your heart.
Sincerely,
Hannah Montana
2006-12-28 07:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Miley Cyrus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy in your current relationship? I guess not. I say tell your boyfriend (be gentle) and take things slow with the other guy.
Even if you feel it'd be best to stay in the relationship, in the long run, no one will benefit from it.
Good luck!
2006-12-28 07:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by colombianqt_247 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let it out before it blows up in your face and gets even more complicated. You cant help the way you feel but next time, try to be monogamous. Its easier that way. Get out of your relationship before you sleep with someone else....Sh*t happens...learn from it.
2006-12-28 07:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by winterblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should do is tell the guy that you were sleeping with you should tell him how you feel about every thing.and i will tell your boyfriend too so he know and if you and your boyfriend get in a fight about i would tell him" it was a long time ago i am in love with you and i will all ways be in love with and forever that what i would said"
2006-12-28 07:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by dashawn d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don u feel guilty when u sleep wit this guy? have u ever consider how ur bf feel when he knows it? y u wan to do it and now u ask for answer. is a joke man
2006-12-28 07:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not tell him. Just stay friends with him. And if your boyfriend starts acting put just leave him for the othe guy. You just have to have a motive to leave him...
2006-12-28 07:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by lisababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can be in love with two people at the same time, atleast i dont think you can. Besides your not being fair on your bf you should chose one guy....who do u wanna be with?
2006-12-28 07:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you loved your boyfriend, then this guy wouldn't be an issues, now would he? So maybe you don't really love your boyfriend. And if you don't love him, you shouldn't be with him.
Neurotically Yours,
NightSpawn
2006-12-28 07:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by the_nightspawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the right thing and end it with your boyfriend before seeing this guy again.
2006-12-28 07:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋