The man I love as you know moves 450 miles away, well I tried so hard to move with him but I couldn't leave my daughter and she was in school here and I didn't feel it would be good to move her at this time. Well after his lease runs out, he is behind on his bills and he ends up moving in with some woman and so I told him I would move on well he trys to get closer to me now than before he calls everyday and tells me he loves me and even came to my town at Christmas to see me. He said she told him he had better tell me goodbye and I said well is that what you are telling me and he said no I came to see you and even brought me gifts. Well I didn't want to see him go so I didn't see him the day he left it was just so so hard because I still love him so much and he said that he loved me too. So what in the world is he doing he says he doesn't want to marry this lady so what is he doing! I know I should walk away but tell me what you think.
2006-12-28 06:34:11 · 12 answers · asked by BC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is marrying another woman, I think you are best off saying goodbye. If he really loved you, he'd move in with you or something of the sorts. He'd find a way to make it work.
2006-12-28 06:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by FutureMrsMarsalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, If he loved you with the kind of love you are seeking, he would never have been with this other woman in the first place.
Better to hurt now. Let him go. He is a user and an abuser. I read it in your letter. LOVE does not hurt. You are hurting.
Don't weaken thinking of what could be instead think of what has transpired and the pain it has caused you, and most likely your future with him would not be one of complete trust for you. Think about your child !! What are the benefits for her ? Children take on our pain and react in some fashion down the line.
I hope I have helped you. I have tried to speak from the heart and many years of dealing with people who are hurting and confused. I hold no credentials, just 76 years of life.
You will make a wise choice I feel, in fact your letter says you already have, just keep it moving forward. Good Luck !!!
Have a Happy Blessed New Year with your daughter ~~~
Smile a lot, its contagious, Mr. Right may smile back. OK
2006-12-28 07:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a child and this guy lives 450 miles away with another woman? Is this really the guy you want to be a father figure to your daughter? I think you already know the answer to your own question. Dump him and move on.
2006-12-28 06:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kathy M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go as much as Jack and start up off with a classic whats up. And later into the verbal substitute you may say something like "That grow to be a somewhat cool party at jenny's do no longer you think of?" and notice have been that leads you.
2016-10-28 13:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why he moved away, but it must not be for a better paying job sense he couldn't pay his bills. If he loved you enough he would stay there with you. I love my man and I wouldn't dare move away if he couldn't come with me. I'd just stay.
2006-12-28 06:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered this already. Walk away and move on. He doesn't sound like he is any good for you. Think of your daughter and what is best for her as well in this situation.
2006-12-28 06:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a cad and you need to walk away. Refuse his gifts. Refuse to see him. Move on. It's not just you, you have to consider the upheaval in your daughter's life too. He is a player.
2006-12-28 06:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one hell of a freak show. He's confused, your question is hard to read since it lacks punctuation, and you need to arrange for him to leave whoever he's seeing and come to you, since you love him so much. Have you asked him to move in with you? Hey, I know it sounds desperate but you do too.
2006-12-28 06:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Mad Scientist 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you both love each other, you need to get together someway. Love is a great thing and I think you need to do whatever it takes to be together. You dont need to break love up, you should talk to him and definetly try to work something out. Well good luck to you and if you love him, never give up!
2006-12-28 06:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is really gay and doesn't like women anymore.
he loves them and because of that , they just play him, and so he doesn't get any, not even hand holding or eye contact or honest talking.
he imagines all the cuties getting so much from other people who are not him and gets jealous cuz he knows what he wants and likes. Can't even get much or sometimes any.
2006-12-28 06:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋