Role playing help!?

Question

My boy and I were thinking about role playing in the bedroom. I need some good advice on what to do so he can get the most fun out of it. Also he wants me to dress up as other women and it makes me feel uncomfortable to know that he is imagining that he is having sex with other women. Does it sound wrong of me to feel this way?
Thanks for your help!

Answer 1

Try it; you like it. Try dressing as a cheer leader girl and doing a cheer (sexy dance) for him. Use a toy on yourself too; that would be really hot!

Answer 2

The idea behind role playing is to assume different characters and situations. It may cause you to lose some inhibitions as your characters can do things that you wouldn't otherwise do. The whole purpose is to have some fun and be more uninhibited.

First rule: Agree on the Characters and Conditions.... You will have to set up some scenarios that are familiar to both of you... e.g. movies, familiar stories, etc.... Then use some costumes to set the mood.

Robin Hood and Maid Marian
Super Man and Super Woman
Batman and Cat Woman
Lancelot and Guinevere
A Lord of the Manor and a French Maid

Personal advise: Stay away from imitating crimes, murders, rapes, etc. And do not imitate your family or acquaintances.

Answer 3

I think role-playing is a healthy option to consider when trying to spice up the intensity! It can be looked at as normal, as long as it doesn't become an addiction or over-bearing habit. You can dress up in a fun costume and pretend to be in a unique situation....such as a nurse, schoolgirl, or anything sexy that will leave him wanting more. Just don't let it the role-playing take over and make you reliant on it too much....just look at it as something fun to share every once in awhile.

Answer 4

You need to look at this for what it is...is all imagination. You would be playing a role. Its a fantasy. Your man loves you for who you are, don't get jealous. He is looking at you, knowing its you but it turns him on to see you in different outfits or wigs etc...

We role play all the time in our house....there are many things you can play, think about what fantasies you have and go hog wild...it really is alot of fun.

Answer 5

Role playing is as much fun for him as it is for you. It's just a fantasy, and I'm sure he doesn't want to feel like he is sleeping with other women...he just wants a new "character".
Try his favourite actress, the most common role...a nurse...something you feel comfortable being.

Answer 6

Isn't that the point of role playing? You can imagine that he is someone else too. Try to treat it in the spirit that it is meant to be and have some fun.

Answer 7

i would feel the exact same way. role playing is one thing, dressing up as another woman for role play in another. You have every right to feel uncomfortable.

Answer 8

I role play with my husband but it is something we both want to do. Yes, I play the maid, the nurse, the hooker and so on but I enjoy it. If you are not comfortable with playing these parts, then don't. If you are unhappy it will show in the role play.

Answer 9

I am not to big on role playing b/c I can never get into it but my boyfriend has thrown out all kinds of ideas:
Batman and cat woman
Superman and L. Lane
Dr. and Nurse
Police office and suspect
Pimp and hoe
How these ideas help you!!

Answer 10

no clue

I have never had a woman who was even willing to try it.

Maybe the first year or two just go with the excitement between you. Then when or if you get bored , then get wigs or nurse costumes or whatever you don't mind and or excites one or both of you.