I started dating a girl about four months ago.. everything is going great, she's beautiful, funny, great to be around. Well, I recently discovered that her mom is my uncle's girlfriend! WTF....What should I do about this? We are not related in any way, but if my uncle marries her mom, she'll be my cousin by marriage! I don't know what to do. =(
2006-12-28 06:26:33 · 48 answers · asked by Lokii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WTF indeed!
First, make sure everyone involved (you, the gf, the mom, the uncle) is aware of the situation, and see if anyone is extremely bothered by it (enough to insist that one pair breaks up).
If everyone's more or less okay with it, then go ahead and pursue the relationship. Even if your uncles marries her mom, you're in no way related by blood, so it isn't illegal or genetically unhealthy. You could marry your girl and it would still be okay... it would just make introducing some family members a little more challenging. ;)
2006-12-28 06:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, there is no cert that her mom will marry your uncle! and there is no cert that u will marry your girlfriend! u have only been with her 4 months, anything can happen.
your not related by blood, and if u do end up cousins, you starting dating your girfriend before you knew this might happen. so it doesnt really matter
2006-12-28 06:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry there is no blood involved.
If you really like the girl no problem eventually the uncle will find out that you are dating the girl too.
Should be any problems in this matter
you are not related.
Good luck and enjoy being with the girl
2006-12-28 06:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue dating this girl! You do not know if your uncle and her mom will marry. And, if they do...so what! She was not your cousin when you met and there is no blood relation involved!!! No one will know this information unless you tell them!
2006-12-28 06:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry your girlfriend first. Your Uncle will be dating his sister then. Ha, Ha. Don't worry you are not related and your "Aunt" wont hold it against you if you hitch with her daughter. The situation is understandable.
2006-12-28 06:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fail to see how this is a problem...unless you plan to act in a manner that would compromise your integrity...
It will make explaining relations more complicated if both couples get married...
It's only first cousins, related by blood that's not ok.
2006-12-28 06:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an aunt who married this guy. The next year my cousin from my aunt's brother married my aunt's husband's son. They're not related by blood. I think you're totally fine. It's not like you met her at a family reunion or anything.
2006-12-28 06:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it there is no blood between you two! My husband's dad lives with my dad's cousin, if they married what would that make her to my son!?!? LOL If she was a blood relation that would be totally different.....It is only by marriage!
2006-12-28 06:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that the family thing will change the way you feel about each other and you guys have been together even before your uncle and her mom hooked up, so i think you guys can still be together.
2006-12-28 06:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you will have no blood relationship but if it bothers you then maybe the four of you should sit down and talk. At least talk to your uncle about it. No worries.
2006-12-28 06:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by kellilicious5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋