I'm over 30 so it's getting harder, people get marry and stop being sociable or they move away
2006-12-28 05:58:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel ya on that!!! I just got married and moved to a new city and got a new job and have no friends here.. It's scary and it's so annoying!
I got a part-time job to meet younger people and they live farther than I do and really don't go out... So I decided that I would just go with the flow... If I meet friends than I do if not then I'm fine!!!
2006-12-28 06:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by danxtsupamodel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is being popular the most important thing? Than BUY your friends. You'll get more that way. If having a few close friends is more important try being their friend honestly and caring to them, if they are true they will stick around. Invite them to do things be genuine have them over for card or games, diner. You have to build up relationships they don't just land in your lap. And the people that you invite don't have to be the best people to get to know (popular ones) Go after the underdogs the misfits they make better friends because they know the value of friendship.
2006-12-28 06:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by eccentric_daughter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first way that I can suggest you get more friends is by joining groups, sports teams, charity organizations, anything like that because its a GREAT way to find different kinds of people, people you have a lot of common with, and all that. Getting a job also hleped me a lot, as a lot of my best friends now have come from my first job in a clothing store.
Also, honestly just put yourself out there and talk to people. I think that's the best thing you can do.
2006-12-28 06:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by kate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fake pals constantly supply themselves away. as an occasion how they manage you whilst no one else is watching? Watch how they manage others in the event that they are advise,gossipy,revealing deepest concerns approximately others dont think of that sometime they wont do the same to you. constantly take inventory of your friends and that's considered necessary to have genuine pals who manage you the way you need to be dealt with. they'd have your terrific pastimes at heart and inform you the actuality. they decide on your stable. They do have have been given what they decide on pay attention on your intestine instinctnt use different peope for funds or a place to stay till at last they
2016-12-15 09:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure about real close friends but if you just want people to talk to and may be hang out with you can try the site i am on great fun and lots of people to get to know and you can also join a league witch will give you more friends to know
2006-12-28 06:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by preci0us8212002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'd be surprised that they're many people like you. Just try a bit harder at making and keeping friends, ahd DUMP the fake friends. Be social without looking like a stalker. Eventually, the right person would come along.
2006-12-28 06:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mad Scientist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I am in the same situation.
Just by saying hello or smiling at someone, you can start a conversation talk to people at work, maybe you could start a book club and tell people at work to come, maybe hangout with your sister and her friend's maybe she knows someone who is lonely too, ask people at work if the know about any groups that meet that you could join to make more friend's, it is kind of hard to make friends when your older, but you will find some friends don't worry about it.
Good luck!
Minnie.
2006-12-28 06:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Minnie May 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you can join a social club (such as a sports league or a reading club or something) that allows you to interact with people in a social setting but without the trappings of a "double date".
2006-12-28 06:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok here are some tips on how to meet friends
~you can join some clubs or activities in your town
~you can help out in your community and meet people there
~you can meet people online
~maybe have your neighbors over for an event
just get involved and dont sit on your couch all day and watch tv
if you want to have more friends than get out and do it.
good luck!
2006-12-28 06:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by iloveDEREKJETER! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
The problem is taht u really want gud frnds so ur in such a hurry to find gud frnds ur making bad choices.Frnds (true fnrds) can always bring a postive change in u.When u make frnds,be ur self and make sure that the person u wanna be frnds with is caring and not the SNOB .......Frnds who care for can always be a shoulder for u to lean on during times of trouble.U can't make true fnrds....u just knw on they way whether they r true or not.I'm sure u'll find a true frnd.....be optimistic.Take care
lov,
varsha
2006-12-28 06:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋