2006-12-28 05:57:42 · 15 answers · asked by Kayesha H 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Yes, you should tell him because he could be there to console you and take care of you when it's over. Plus your relationship will be stronger knowing that you don't keep secrets from each other. Explain to him why you don't want to keep it and he will understand.
2006-12-28 06:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that is a decision that you will live with for the rest of your life, you made the decision to have sex, while knowing the consequences. I am currently 9 weeks preg, and also have a 9 year old son. There is no better feeling in the world. God has blessed you with a miracle. Even if you feel that you can not or dont want to raise a child, maybe the father will, or consider adoption, there are so many people in this world that would love to parent your child. Think long and hard about it,pray about it, God will guide you!, and yes you should def tell the father.
2006-12-28 07:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by 1ontheway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ... As a guy, I've always been of the opinion that regardless of the fact that a lot of people say 'it's his baby too', it's inside YOUR body. Possession is 9/10s of the law, as they say. When you're fooling around without protection or birth control, as you surely were, pregnancy is the risk you take. While abortion shouldn't be used for birth control, it certainly is better to go through with one, in some cases, than it is to bring an unwanted baby into our troubled world.
Suppose you inform your boyfriend, I want to repeat ... BOYFRIEND ... what do you think he'd do about your pregnancy? Think he'll step up to the plate and marry you? Do you even see yourself married to this guy? If you tell him and you don't marry, will he support you and the baby adequately? Does he even have a job? Does he live at home with his parents? Will his parents interfere with your relationship? You have a lot of things to consider if you keep the baby, and they all amount to momentous decisions for YOU, not him.
2006-12-28 06:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, you to made this baby together you should decide what to do together. Yeah you might be scared right now and think your only option is to have a abortion, but you could end up regretting it for the rest of your life. At least if you tell him you will have someone by your side to talk to and be there for you. Oh, and just think if you do get a abortion and he finds out you never told him you wont only be losing a baby but a boyfriend to.
2006-12-28 06:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay come on you know once you post this your looking to get Bashed! So to save some of the comments I'll just say...If you think your "old" enough to have sex then you should take the consequences that come along with it. In my book if your planning on Abortion..if hurts everyone that knows & it's murder. The baby didn't do anything wrong. The father has a right to know!!
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2006-12-28 06:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treating somewhat one as a wonder is truly infantile and ability that perchance you at the on the spot are not mature sufficient for the duty of a baby. i'd re-evaluate allowing this being pregnant to bypass to finish time period or in case your beliefs are antagonistic to abortion then evaluate adoption.
2016-12-01 06:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's immoral not to, but not illegal. My cousin had an abortion without telling her husband, she never got in trouble with the law....he tried to press charges but that didn't work. Anyway, I don't like abortions, I always say adoption if you don't want the baby. Only God should take away life.
2006-12-28 06:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by thezookeeper 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say u should coz he has 100% right 2 now......let him also decide if d baby is needed or not.... if both of u dont want it do anything i have nothign 2 say...
2006-12-28 06:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend had a right to know what is going on with you since he helped to get you where you are. HOWEVER, you have the final decision as to whether or not you choose to keep it.
2006-12-28 06:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Summer Breeze 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's his baby too he has every right to know about it and he should have some say in what happens to it.
2006-12-28 06:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋