I have a guy friend that i see at work. The problem is i've developed feelings for him even though he has a gf. I told him about it and suggested that it's best that we stop talking at all until i get over my feelings for him. We've stopped talking for a couple of days, but i miss him. Do you think he know i was going to end up missing him? Does he really want me to get over him?
2006-12-28 05:57:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he wants you to get over him.If he asked for you two to stop talking at all is because he is not interested in you at all.Other wise he would talk to you or at least try to. Just get over him, I know is going to be hard but if he has a gf then just try to meet other people.
2006-12-28 05:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by juanita77008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have a friend in any workplace, that you should talk with them. Talking to someone doesn't automatically mean you are going to jump in bed with them. If you miss him, why make yourself unhappy? I think I would just let him know that I wanted to be his friend, or that his girlfriend is a lucky girl, and that if he did break up with that other girl, that you would like to ask him out. Something along those lines. Then, everything is out in the open and you guys can have a relationship based on honesty and trust, which are the basis for any lasting relationships. At least you would have that. Good luck!
2006-12-28 14:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! No! all men want there cake and they want to eat it too. Give it a week and then just speak. nothing more nothing less. Let him know that you can still be professional in spit of what is going on. And besides you would not want no woman in your man face all the time. If I was his girlfriend and I walked up on you and him both of you would have a lot of explaining to do
2006-12-28 14:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are slowly drifting to what might eventually happen, an office affair, a fling that seems to awaken you from your slumber . really fun when you start it, but then it soon fizzles out, you get depressed, he moves on and then you have to leave your job, it is not worth it, you never said you Love him, and I don't think he loves you, wake up before its too late
2006-12-28 14:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Patriot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to stay with his gf and not have to choose but since shes just a gf its not forever so just tell him that you got over your feelings for him even though you havent and when the sorry ***** leaves him you will be there to help him and poof he'll be all yours
2006-12-28 14:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. If he said its best to you to stop talking, then he does want you to get over him
2006-12-28 13:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Cali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Good thing you ask first and he reply to you. So leave him alone. Move on.
2006-12-28 14:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't talked in a few days..and he requested that. so yes, he does want you to get over him.
2006-12-28 14:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kell Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do we know what he wants?
2006-12-28 14:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you in an actual relationship with him, or just wishing.
2006-12-28 14:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋