If you were told 9 months to move on with your life that basically there was no room for you and your son in his life right now. So a few months later you met a new person whom you was happy with. He made you feel special, loved you and your kids. provided for all of you and you two began to live a life together. Not married but engaged at this point. Then your sons father comes back from war, tells you how he loves you but knows your engaged. hes not trying to make you make a decision but you feel bad for loving two men at one time. What would you do?
2006-12-28 05:46:06 · 11 answers · asked by tiffany s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep moving in the direction you are going. the childs father realizes he messed up and lost something special and wants to see if he still has you on the line.
2006-12-28 05:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Shanan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no way that you can love two man at the same time. Maybe you feel bad for one or you appreciate what the other has done for you and your son. If the father of your son said all those things to you then he didn't not love you.Why would you want to go back with him, unless you really love him. Sit down by your self and think what your feelings clear your mind and figure out what's going on.
2006-12-28 13:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by juanita77008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never love two man at one time, you like one and love the other. Make sure who you really love, who gives you respect. What made this military man change his mind? If you go back with him, he will tell you at some point in the future that there is no room for you and your son in his life... What are you going to do then? Be wise in your decision. Don't be lead by the looks ao something impresive. but by real love... True love, that is.
God Bless.
2006-12-28 14:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I think you should have a serious conversation with the man you are currently dating and be very honest about how you feel. Being honest with yourself about how you really feel about both men is going to help you make a clear decision. Why all of a sudden does the father have time for you and your kids? He was very sure about his previous decision, how do you know you can trust him now? You seem to be happy in your present situation. I wouldn't jeopardize it!
2006-12-28 13:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by rhoyalstyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say guy #1 was out of luck. He told you to move on and there was no room in his life for y'all so other than cashing his child support checks I'd say he made his decision months ago. You don't need someone who is going to run hot and cold at a whim. What's to love about someone who would treat you like that?
2006-12-28 13:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would just say you should take some time to review you relationship with each guy. Think about who would make you happiest, who is the most dependable? Ultimately this is a life decision that only you can make, your happiness comes first. Who's going to make you happy?
2006-12-28 13:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by majones83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy who blew it that he had his chance and push him back out. Don't feel sorry for him that he went to war either. That's not how good decisions are made. But as long as you continue to have feelings for two men, there'll be trauma. Ditch the one who ditched you and your son.
2006-12-28 13:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever see the movie Pearl Harbor? ;)
This is a tough decision, but I would keep one thing in mind. The first guy was willing to give you up. Why would you give him another chance when you already have a man who ISN'T willing to give you up?
2006-12-28 13:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by albion53151 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you feel in you're heart? Do you still have feelings for you're ex? Was you're ex good to you? Why would he just leave you? Then come back?
That situation seems to happen a lot. Go with you're heart and you'll always be right!
2006-12-28 13:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin.
2006-12-28 13:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋