my girlfreind wants to have sex and im kinda scared cuz im a virgin . we have fooled around but its never needed been penetration. i kinda want to do it but...... any advice?
2006-12-28 05:45:59 · 32 answers · asked by kiill42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh im in 8th grade not HS
2006-12-28 05:57:15 · update #1
should we just fool around more untill were both ready?
2006-12-28 06:01:11 · update #2
if she's a virgin also, then be VERY gentle and slow....keyword, FOREPLAY, and make foreplay last as long as possible..if you feel that you'll prematurely ejaculate, then pull out for a few seconds. You should be fine, sex is no rocket science. I was my boyfriend's first, and he did fine. Just remember to use a condom, slip it on ALL the way, and check it often for breakage. DONT listen to the people who say to get drunk or anything like that..if anything, drinking alcohol makes your erection go down because it thins the blood.
2006-12-28 05:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... I hope she knows you are a virgin, and if she does then IM SURE SHE WILL understand. Just take things slow, there is NO NEED to rush. Being scared is normal.. I think everyone is scared their first time. Use protection, and be safe. Good luck
2006-12-28 05:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait, if you are not ready. if she knows that you are a virgin then tell tell her how your feeling. im sure she will understand. if she doesnt know , then its best just to fess up! either way ur gonnna have to tell her! you dont want to make a bad decision that will haunt you for the rest of your life do you? how would u tell your wife that u have a kid by a gurl u did in highschool (im assuming ur in hs) its always good to wait! u know that saying...good things happen to those who wait!
2006-12-28 05:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your entire life to have sex.
The more you fool around the more you will want to.
So you need to decide if you are wanting to wait until you are married. Imagine if you are able to tell your wife that you waited for her and she is your first.
2006-12-28 05:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Brad D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your girlfriend and tell her how you are feeling if she cares about you she will understand. If the two of you just go with the flow then it will happen when both parties are ready.
2006-12-28 05:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by trace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of how scared you are, if your girl is also a virgin she will be 100 times more scared than you!
wait until your 100% ready, but even when you are you will still be scared! its natural!
2006-12-28 05:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it only and only when you are ready. Dont let her force you to do it if you are scared. This is your first time I am sure you dont want any regrets. Good Luck
2006-12-28 05:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ally R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it unless YOU want to! If she really cares for you then she'll wait, its a good way to know if the person you are with is a true keeper
2006-12-28 05:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by kvan28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ready then make sure you use protection, and just take it nice and easy, and everything will fall (slip) into place. Good Luck, but make sure your ready.
2006-12-28 05:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk first, then if something goes wrong blame it on the boose. (Like premature ejaculation, which is probably going to happen or you might urinate on her accidentally). Seriously, if you aren't ready then you aren't. When it feels right just do it.
2006-12-28 05:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by crispcelerystick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋