This guy has helped me out finacially a lot, without me ever asking. Now he is in $$$ trouble his self. He is not a bad person just not for me. I have been trying to break things off with him for a while. I have tried all the nice ways and he still does not get the point. I do not want to be mean, he does not deserve it but is there any other way to get him to let go?
2006-12-28 05:43:42 · 20 answers · asked by love me despite it all 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I paid back money to him and it was not about the money.
2006-12-28 05:55:58 · update #1
Just be honest with him, tell him how you feel and that you don't see it working out. Better to be honest and straight forward then to let it go on longer. Heis going to be hurt but it is not your fault and you can't let him manipulate you into staying with him. Just tell him and then move on. If you stick around it will make it harder for both of you. You have to cut of communication, for now at least, until you have both moved on.
2006-12-28 05:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by strtat2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something doesn't sound right here. He has helped me out alot financially..............without me ever asking/sounds ungrateful.
Well, I never ask for help from him.
Now he needs help....and I am not willing to do the same thing...so what is the best way to dump him??? That's called cutting to the chase.....I can tell how sweet and sensitive you are and don't want to hurt him or be mean. Honestly, just dump him and move on to your next pot of gold.
2006-12-28 05:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by keysram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a serious time to talk, say to him we have something very important to talk about and just tell him how u feel and stick to it if u tell him u don't want to be with him but u r still talking to him and be with him u r not serious about ending the relationship
2006-12-28 05:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by sagie29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps u should pay him back his money, cuz u know he's in financial problems right now.
then say, i don't want to be a burden to you; let's part ways and stay friends. it's just not working out for us, and i don't see a future together. i really wish u the best, and hope that u are not angry.. u are a wonderful person, but we're just not right for eachother.
2006-12-28 05:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheat on him and let him find out. Works every time! It's like pulling off a band-aid fast, sure it hurts like hell at first, but you get over it faster and it's the easiest way in the long run.
2006-12-28 05:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Michael H 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats hard. just tell him flat out "I want to break up" if he hasnt gotten the hint, just end it now. tell him why ur ending it and be honest. dont do the "its not u its me" thing that will make it messy good luck!
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2006-12-28 05:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by dauschaundlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that your feelings for him have changed and in order to be honest with yourself, you need to break-up.
2006-12-28 05:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so u liked him when he helped u out with money and now hes poor u want rid?
2006-12-28 05:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let him know how serious you are. sit him down and have a talk with him. say, i don't want to be in this relationship anymore..express where you are coming from.
2006-12-28 05:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kell Bell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cya bye
2006-12-28 05:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋